u/Only_Reserve1615

I am a white male, early 40s, married 10 years living in Vancouver, BC - and my wife is cheating, which I’ve known about for some time.

Without any bitterness or judgement whatsoever, I’d love to hear from the perspective of a cheating wife - what would your husband have to do to reignite the relationship? How would he be able to get your attention refocused on him?

If you’re a cheating wife and can spare a bit of time to advise a husband on what he can do to be better, I really want to talk to you!

Anyone in Vancouver BC?

Question here to other men whose wives are straying or for the ladies in the same boat:

Has anyone here ever tried or had success with leaning into a stag/Hotwife or even cuckhold kink as a way to deal with the affair?

Women - would you respect your SO if he was willing to accept your AP if it meant maybe you’d at least describe your dates to him?

I’d like to talk to someone, maybe just vent or whatever about my wife’s affair. She is seeing her boyfriend openly and probably stays at his place two nights a week.

I’ve thought of having a “revenge affair” but can’t really quite bring myself to doing it.

Right now I kinda just want someone to talk to, have a private, adult conversation about the whole thing and just share my feelings.

Absolutely no judgment - none at all - about what YOUR motivations are for having an affair. In fact I’m really sort of seeking the comfort from a woman that might be able to reassure me that it is indeed possible for a woman to love her husband and still want to enjoy extramarital sex.

If it matters I’m 39, white, slim good looking guy.