31 [F4M] #Calgary,AB #Online with the possibility of meeting

I never know how to start these things, and I’ve posted a few times before so I feel like my creativity is dying out along with my hope lol

I’m not just here for a fwb, meaningless sex or swapping nudes. I’ve already gone through that phase of my life.
I’m looking for that spark with someone special again, someone who’s genuinely interested in a love affair connection.
Lives are busy, but communication is key.

I’m a bored, sometimes lonely SAHM of three aged 10 and under. With a spouse who continually forgets my needs of simple attention and affection. I mean, I haven’t gotten a “good morning beautiful” text from him in a couple of years now. The sex life is still there, but it’s hard to be attracted to someone who doesn’t make you feel super wanted or loved. It seems we stopped “dating” each other over the years and things have just settled into a mundane routine. With school about to be back in, I’m about to have a whole lot of free time again.

Physically I am taller than the average woman, mom bod but active. Very conventionally pretty in the face.
I love deep conversations, sharing memes or TikTok’s, discussing the latest tv shows or movies and sharing what’s on my playlist lately.
I’ve done this sort of thing before, had an online on again, off again fling with someone I met off instagram. But I’m hoping to find someone a little more local this time.

My only requirements would be, please no low effort intro DM’s, and please be 6ft or taller. Oh, and you gotta be cool that I’m 420 friendly 🙃

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u/Clueless_111 — 2 days ago

31 [F4M] #Calgary #Alberta #Canada

Feeling pretty bleak in my search, but I’m already lowering my standards in my marriage, might as well uphold some for an AP lol.

Just your typical emotionally and affectionately neglected house mom/wife. Bedrooms not dead, but it kinda is when your fantasizing about anyone else during so.
Looking for a long term, good ole fashioned love affair without changing our situations.

I’m taller than average (almost 6ft and up club worthy)
Thick & curvy but in all the right places, I stay active and enjoy the outdoors, conventionally attractive and 420 friendly. I’m typically attracted to taller men, with darker features. The more “seasoning” in your bloodline, the better but not a requirement.

I get that life gets busy, but if you can’t even keep up with messages throughout the day, this probably won’t work.
I’m looking for that “can’t wait to check my phone” type connection.
*notabot

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u/Clueless_111 — 2 months ago

31 [F4M] #Calgary #Alberta

Feeling pretty bleak in my search, but I’m already lowering my standards in my marriage, might as well uphold some for an AP lol.

Just your typical emotionally and affectionately neglected house mom/wife. Bedrooms not dead, but it kinda is when your fantasizing about anyone else during so.
Looking for a long term, good ole fashioned love affair without changing our situations.

I’m taller than average (almost 6ft and up club worthy)
Thick & curvy but in all the right places, I stay active and enjoy the outdoors, conventionally attractive and 420 friendly. I’m typically attracted to taller men, with darker features. The more “seasoning” in your bloodline, the better but not a requirement.

I get that life gets busy, but if you can’t even keep up with messages throughout the day, this probably won’t work.
I’m looking for that “can’t wait to check my phone” type connection.

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u/Clueless_111 — 2 months ago

31 [F4M] Calgary, AB 🇨🇦

I’m a SAHM with the curvy mom bod to match, taller than average women, conventionally attractive if you’re into thicker women.
I’m looking for an old school love affair with someone who’s also not wanting to change their situation.

I’m down to earth, love outdoor adventures, over indulging in TV or a movie, foodie of course, and I always keep music playing throughout my day of all genres. I’m more of a hip-hop/rap/RnB listener with a big appreciation for classics, oldies, rock, all genres really. I listen to it all.

I miss all the excitement a new relationship brings, texts throughout the day, sending pics/vids/voicenotes.. sending each other songs that remind us of one another. I often find myself missing the affection and attention I require as life gets busy, and the routine starts routining.
I’d eventually like to take things IRL and not just online, so please consider that height & location may be a deal breaker.

*notabot

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u/Clueless_111 — 3 months ago

31 [F4M] Calgary, AB

I’m a SAHM with the curvy mom bod to match, taller than average women, conventionally attractive if you’re into thicker women.
I’m looking for an old school love affair with someone who’s also not wanting to change their situation.

I’m down to earth, love outdoor adventures, over indulging in TV or a movie, foodie of course, and I always keep music playing throughout my day of all genres. I’m more of a hip-hop/rap/RnB listener with a big appreciation for classics, oldies, rock, all genres really. I listen to it all.

I miss all the excitement a new relationship brings, texts throughout the day, sending pics/vids/voicenotes.. sending each other songs that remind us of one another. I often find myself missing the affection and attention I require as life gets busy, and the routine starts routining.
I’d eventually like to take things IRL and not just online, so please consider that height & location may be a deal breaker.

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u/Clueless_111 — 3 months ago

30 [F4M] - YYC, Alberta 🇨🇦

Hiii, I’m back again. ❤️‍🩹

Yet another situationship gone sexual too fast and fizzled out before meeting.
I’m 31 on the 31st this year, and I was really hoping to find that special connection with someone for a weekend get away for my golden birthday but alas I’m back to searching. And no, the weekend get away isn’t happening now lol.

About me:
I’m a tall SAHM, mom bod to match but in all the best ways, so I’m told. And you gotta be “down for the brown” around here. lol
Happy to give more of a physical description once we chat more and pics eventually when the trust is established.
I always keep my earbuds on me and spend more time with my dog during the day while the kiddos are at school than I do with people.
I’m looking for a genuine connection, a good old fashioned love affair without changing anyone’s situations. I miss the excitement of a new relationship and all the attention and affection that comes with it.

*notabot

I don’t want to leave a majorly long post that no one will read, but I figure if I put some effort in, the right person will show it back.
Tell me about yourself when you message, I really prefer it over a one liner.
I might be a bit of a slow burn these days, and despite me posting late at night, I’m not much of a night owl during the week. Thanks for reading, hope my sneaky link is out there somewhere.

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u/Clueless_111 — 3 months ago

30 [F4M] - YYC, AB

Hiii, I’m back again. ❤️‍🩹

Yet another situationship gone sexual too fast and fizzled out before meeting.
I’m 31 on the 31st this year, and I was really hoping to find that special connection with someone for a weekend get away for my golden birthday but alas I’m back to searching. And no, the weekend get away isn’t happening now lol.

About me:
I’m a tall SAHM, mom bod to match but in all the best ways, so I’m told. And you gotta be “down for the brown” around here. lol
Happy to give more of a physical description once we chat more and pics eventually when the trust is established.
I always keep my earbuds on me and spend more time with my dog during the day while the kiddos are at school than I do with people.
I’m looking for a genuine connection, a good old fashioned love affair without changing anyone’s situations. I miss the excitement of a new relationship and all the attention and affection that comes with it.

I don’t want to leave a majorly long post that no one will read, but I figure if I put some effort in, the right person will show it back.
Tell me about yourself when you message, I really prefer it over a one liner.
I might be a bit of a slow burn these days, and despite me posting late at night, I’m not much of a night owl during the week. Thanks for reading, hope my sneaky link is out there somewhere.

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u/Clueless_111 — 3 months ago