r/MarriedButChatting

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I feel like I’m still somewhat attractive. It would be nice for someone to want me again. Maybe we can flirt and pretend we are falling for each other. Maybe we just become friends.

If you feel the same way maybe we can chat. I am not looking to share explicit pictures.

I would say I am most attracted to white men with good hygiene and nice teeth.

*notabot

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It’s late here but I just can’t sleep.

I can’t promise anything. Short term or long term.

I love a good banter, little smirks that turn into cheek hurting smiles. Giggles that turn into light flirting and before you know it, you already have to get ready for work lol

*notabot I promise.

Just a typical girl wanting some company. Wanting to know more about you and the things that make you smile. Let’s help each other forget the things that have us up this late at night.

Australia only, please.

I’m married, and I have a pretty great life, a professional career, wonderful kids, a good marriage, and plenty of friends.

But somehow, something still feels like it’s missing.

I’d love to connect with someone on a deeper level, someone I can share desires, secrets, hopes and dreams with.

Someone who enjoys messaging and getting lost in genuinely deep conversations, but who can also be fun, playful and funny.

Male or female, it really doesn’t matter to me. What matters is finding someone I genuinely connect with. Someone I can be open, honest and intimate with on an emotional level. Bots can’t do that. And I am *notabot

If you think I might be worth the effort, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s chat.

31, married, female. 5’4”, curvy (I work out, but I’ve also never been one to say no to a cookie). Life is about balance, right? 😂

No kids, just three fur babies who are absolutely my children, and I will probably show you way too many pictures of them.

I’m a little all over the place most days. Think a million tabs open in my brain, and somewhere an ad is playing… but I can’t figure out which tab it’s coming from.

I love being outdoors, getting lost in a good book, taking on projects of pretty much any kind, and music is almost always playing somewhere in the background.

I’m looking for someone I can talk to about all the little ins and outs of my day. Ya know the funny stuff, annoying stuff, random thoughts, and everything in between. I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation (including my own), but I really miss that getting to know someone phase of life. The butterflies, flirting, checking your phone because you’re hoping it’s them… you know the feeling.

Ideally, you’re in the US, 46 or younger, can carry a conversation, and appreciate a slightly quirky woman who may occasionally send you a completely unrelated thought with zero context.

If you made it this far, give me something better than “hey.” *notabot😜

What’s your go-to song the second you get in your vehicle?

I met someone once who really stayed with me, and I still catch myself wondering if that kind of connection is something you can ever find again.

A bit about me, I’m married, and I do love my husband, but I can’t shake the feeling that something’s missing. On paper, everything in my life looks perfect, which almost makes it harder to explain.
I’m 30, 5’3, curvy. I love running, long beach days, and listening to Taylor Swift on repeat. I’m probably not selling myself very well here, I think writing about yourself is weirdly difficult but I promise I’m more interesting in conversation.

I tend to be drawn to men with darker hair, a handsome face, and I do like someone tall… though I guess that matters less here than it does in real life. Age matters to me though, so please be between 29 and 40.

Anyway, I’ve officially run out of things to say, so maybe we just start with a conversation and see where it goes.

*notabot

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Just seeking entertainment while at work maybe more. 27, married, mom with a bit of a wild side. Dms open. *Notabot

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I could use more emotional connection in my life. I’m not in a miserable situation, but I have chosen to continue to grow, emotionally…which has made it hard to not notice the choice of stagnation. I have been craving to connect with someone who is emotionally developed, introspective, and self aware. Not that I want to do endless therapy sessions together…but it’s nice to know we have the ability to share depth, when we want to. About me: I lead a quiet introverted life with some sprinkles of adventure. I’m happy with the simple things, like watching the sky or being outdoors. I have a bit of a shy disposition, but once I click with someone…I’m so chatty and comfortable. I’m an artsy creative person, and I love practicing my art and having fun with it. I am colorful, and a bit quirky. I am often told that I’m sweet and attentive. I am not a push over, though, I am not afraid to sass. I have a lot of interests, but I find it’s not totally necessary to have all the same interests? I love going for walks, riding my bike, working on all my art projects, homemaking and decorating, nature, animals, reading a few really impactful books per year, taking photos like a wannabe documentarian, movies and premium TV, being a little too online, exploring the nooks and crannies of a new town or city, sociology, psychology, very grounded spirituality. If I lived near a beach or a lake, I’d be there looking for sea glass or interesting pebbles. I sometimes can come off serious, but I am very goofy when I feel comfortable with someone. I love funny people (don’t we all?) and being playful. I’m pale, have dark hair, and I’m a size medium. With curves. I can be both girly or throw on some boots and a beanie. I do home workouts and would love a motivation buddy. I don’t really have a set “type”, though I am drawn towards men who are gentle and masculine, and lead a healthy lifestyle. Because this is online, someone who writes well and likes writing. We don’t have to send each other novels, but short form texts make it hard to feel anything. I’d prefer to speak with someone who also doesn’t have kids. Age 35-48. I know this is rude to say, but if gaming is your only hobby or interest, we won’t match well. *notabot

Bored from Los Angeles, looking to chit chat …

Started my work shift and it’s hella slow..

Say hiii in a DM

*notabot

Hello, daddies! I’m just making another post on here after being away for a while. I hope the men on here have changed since my last post about ghosting and ignoring texts for no reason.

Though I’m looking for someone who is cool, open minded, and easy to talk to. I’m married, and honestly, I’m not facing any challenges in my marriage I’m simply interested in trying new things, meeting someone new, and enjoying some good conversation. The banter definitely needs to be on point.

So, if you think you can pique my interest, feel free to reach out, leave a comment, or make your presence known. Just make sure you make it worth my while.

\*notabot

*notabot

Hello lovely MBC people!

MAGA NEED NOT APPLY

I know my post is long but I’m looking for a specific kind of person and this will hopefully help! I’m looking for an online best friend with benefits. I’m not in a position to do anything in person and if that’s what you’re looking for, I genuinely hope you find it!

Bullet points about me:

*I’m a bigger girl. BBW, thicc, chubby.. whatever you want to call it. But I’m 80 pounds down in 18 months and I’m proud of that. It would be more but a recent fibromyalgia diagnosis has slowed progress a bit. If I’m not your type, no worries! I hope you find who you’re looking for!

*I’m 5’2. Fun sized, not short.😒
I’m an author! (Please don’t be weird about your spelling and grammar! We all make mistakes but please use the proper your/you’re, their/there/they’re, etc). I’ve published twice on kindle - one contemporary fiction novel and one erotic novella under two different names. There isn’t enough therapy or alcohol to get me through a conversation with my dad about me writing erotica 🤣.

*I read like crazy. I’m currently reading two books: Listening to The Firm by John Grisham for the (absolutely the truth) 15th time and reading The Inquiry by Will Caine.

*I love to cook, bake, sing in a community choir and play some video games!

*My dog is a SUPER spoiled English Cream Golden Retriever and she’s my baby girl. I don’t know what I’d do without her! She’s a year and a half and I’m not ready for her to be a big girl!!

*I’m married. We’ve been together for almost 10 years and married for 3. I don’t hate him, but the intimacy is gone and he’d rather play video games than spend time with me.

Now that I’ve described me, let me describe you!

Ideally you’d be:

*A married/taken man between 30 and 65.

*Taller than me (not hard, I know 🤣)
An animal lover (whether you have a furry bestie currently or not ❤️)

*In a somewhat compatible time zone. I’m on the East Coast of the US.

*Intelligent/educated. Tech school, a book nerd, a corporate drone, a forever academic. I’m not picky, I just want someone I can have interesting and compelling conversations with (while also debating the silly things in life).

*You understand that communication is tricky. I’m not asking you to send “brb” (remember the simpler times of AIM?) every time you put your phone down but if you know you’re not available to chat after work or on the weekends, just let me know! I understand that things happen and life can get crazy but a heads up when possible is always appreciated.

*Not looking for an online hookup/booty call. I write erotica so I have a sexy imagination but I’m not always in the mood!! Intimacy is best when you know each other well and have trust!

(Bonus points for tattoos, beards and a love of good food)

If this sounds like you send me a message!

{To show you read this please send a message with how many times I’ve read The Firm so I know it’s not a copy/paste message}

Obligatory: I’m not here to change my situation or yours. I’d like to keep things discreet and help you do the same.

I am in EDT/EST and do not have children. I am in a room mates situation and miss feeling desired and just being excited to talk to someone. Please enjoy gentle bullying and good banter. I have a lot of free time and spend a lot of time alone so my hope is to find someone that can match that in some capacity (I don’t expect to be a top priority - but day time only won’t work for me.) I’m looking for a real, genuine connection that lasts. I intend to start off as a friends and see where that goes!

I love all forms of media and can chat about most things. I’m a big sports fan (hockey and baseball), enjoy reality tv and come with a list of good documentaries to watch. I enjoy the occasional craft, reading and doom scrolling.

Happy for folks that want to jump into something sexual! However, I won’t reply to sexual messages. It’s a swift way to get ghosted or blocked! Physical is not really important to me (I’m not looking to exchange photos in the same day.). I would like to keep this online so connection and vibe is more important to me.

If you have read all this - tell me what your biggest hot take is. The spicier the better! *notabot

Hi all. Been lurking for a long time, just enjoying the fantasy of it all. But sometimes loneliness hits hard and you just want someone to talk to, you know? That’s what I’m looking for right now, I guess.

I’ve never posted here before, never had an affair, this is all new to me and I don’t know what to expect, but I’m open. Opsec is important so I have read up on that quite a bit.

I’ve read a lot of posts and know women seem to be bombarded after posting, so I thought I’d share a few things about me that might help you decide if I’m someone you’d want to talk to or not:

• Married a very long time. Not in a db. We can talk about that later. But obviously something is missing or I wouldn’t be here. Spouse bashing won’t be my thing.
• I don’t have any kiddos.
• Politics are a burning dumpster fire right now, but I lean left.
• I’m pretty laid-back and more of an introvert.
• Physically, short with small frame. Blonde-ish. Not curvaceous. (Sigh.)
• Again, new here. A lot of guys seem to want someone experienced, so just want to be sure that’s not missed.
• I won’t be available 24/7, but I’ll do my best to be as communicative as I can.

What else… oh, *notabot! And not looking to change anyone’s situation.

I don’t have a long list of what I’m looking for. Men my age or older is ideal. Maybe in my time zone or close-ish to it would make things easier. If you respond, will you please include your age and location or time zone?

30 Female Washington State — Like it says, I’m looking for a cool ass friendship. Vibes are key. Banter and Wit must be up to par. So catch my attention and drop me a message, or comment or whatever. Just make sure it’s good.

*notabot

I was originally looking for something deep and passionate that awakens the fire inside both of us. Something that makes life colorful again after our needs and wants have gone unmet for months? Years? I wanted to be all in with my person. The problem? I’m a short, pale, blonde BBW and that is exactly what nobody is looking for 😂 so scratch all of the above. What I crave most of all is just someone being around. If you’re looking for your person but are insanely lonely in the meantime, come hang out with me! We can share laughs, vent about all of the dumb shit that happens throughout our days, talk hobbies, travels, music, whatever. As a fat chick, I promise I won’t threaten you with my affections so don’t be deterred 😂 just 2 people passing the time and keeping each other company. Who knows, we might even become friends along the way! I welcome anyone who wants conversation!☺️

\*notabot

First things first, I'm *notabot.

I'm a 42 year old married woman and I live in Tennessee. I have made connections on here in the past but feel like I may need to be a bit more specific on who I am and what I'm looking for so that I can find the right connection again.

My husband and I have a dead bedroom situation. It's difficult when you want to experience passion and desire but it's just not there anymore. I am not looking to chat with someone about why that part of my marriage isn't working. This is my solution, and I'm truly wanting to find that one person who I can connect with on every level. I don't have time for multiple connections. I want to find an exclusive and emotional connection. Eventually I would like to be able to meet in person so please be close to the south or able to travel.

A little about me: I'm a mom first a foremost. I love animals and have worked with them for over 20 years. I have much more time to put into this than I used to as I don't work full time anymore. Music is my therapy and I listen to a little of everything (except country, which is ironic being that I'm in Tennessee). I love to read and also love to write. I love being at home but then I have also grown a deep love of the outdoors since moving here, especially anything with water. Physically, I'm a BBW but very active. I know my size isn't ideal for some so I like to put that out there because I'm personally confident in my looks and size. Since I turned 40, I am trying to become a better version of myself both physically and mentally in order to live a happier and healthier life.

A little about my ideal match: Close to my age within a few years....I'd consider older but not younger. I would prefer someone who has kids but it's not a deal breaker (I've just found I can tend to relate with someone who also has kid(s). You also understand the frustrations of living in a dead bedroom situation and also that you're looking for that one connection to fill that void.

I've found that discretion but also vulnerability work best at these situations. We don't have to give every detail about our lives (I personally rid my life of all traditional social media during covid and have happily never gone back because the less people know about you the better in my opinion) but we have to be able to establish a connection and also attraction.

I would want to exchange pics pretty quickly beucsse I would absolutely hate to build a connection to find we aren't physically attracted to each other. Attraction is multi faceted with it being a mix of physical, emotional and intellectual and there needs to be enough of each to see if there is a match. Eventually I'm happy to move to another platform we both agree on.

No one connection is a one size fits all so I'll stop rambling and figure if you're someone that thinks you'd like to get to know me, send me a message. I do not reply to low effort or messages that feel like they've been copy and pasted. I know that it's a pain to put yourself out there and say something different every time but I took the time to make a post and you took the time to read it. Tell me why you think we may be a good match.

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