36 [F4M] #EST/#USA BBW Author Seeks Online Bestie (with flirty benefits!)
Hello all!
*notabot
I’m a 36 year old twice-published author (two different genres and pen names) living on the East Coast of the US. My day job is doing anything my 1 year old female English Cream Golden Retriever wants (usually belly rubs or opening the door for the 7973947th time 😒) and attempting to get the voices in my head to do something that I can write about so I can avoid the mountain of dishes and laundry that somehow appear despite there only being two people in the household.
Like you, I’m married. I don’t want to bash my spouse or yours, we’re here and that’s enough information for me! I absolutely understand having responsibilities and that silences and time between messages is expected but if there will be a long silence all I ask is for a heads up if possible ☺️
A little about me:
*I’m a bigger girl. Plus size. BBW. Whatever you want to call it. I’m actively losing weight - help encourage me to keep going? I’ve lost over 70 pounds in the last year. My dog is a terrible yoga partner and she doesn’t like walks yet so indoor dance parties, reliving my high school color guard days with the flag I got on fb marketplace for $20 and my recumbent bike it is!
*I read nearly constantly. I am guaranteed to have at least one audiobook, one ebook and one physical book going at the same time so I can bounce around depending on mood and situation. (yay undiagnosed ADHD 🙄 - working on getting it diagnosed)
*I sing in a community choir that I’ve been part of since 2011 and I drive 90 minutes one way each week for rehearsals because they’re like family to me and I’m on the board of directors now as the Librarian and the Secretary.
*I love to cook and bake. I love cooking shows on tv and I don’t think I’ve ever done a recipe exactly as written yet - and I don’t plan to! I love being creative in the kitchen, in my office and sometimes in the bedroom 😏
*I love spending time with my family, my dog and my friends - best if I can see all of them at the same time!
*No kids for me. I found out at 20 it would take a lot of money and medical intervention for a *maybe* and I came to terms with that. I don’t hate kids, I just can’t have them and at this stage in my life… my dog is enough chaos to deal with! I grew up with cats and this is my first dog and she’s 98% good but that 2%… 🤦♀️😒
Who I’m looking for:
*Someone 30 or older
*Intelligence (college degree not required - I don’t have one!)
*Married or otherwise attached
*Kids or no kids, I’m not picky
*Has/had or at least is an animal lover.
*Has hobbies/personal interests
I’m hoping for a long-term best friend with flirty benefits when time/inclination allow. - Emphasis on Friend -. I have a higher drive than my spouse but it’s taken a hit since I started on antidepressants. I’d like to eventually move to telegram because Reddit chat/notifications aren’t the best.
If you like what you’ve read send me a message with who your fictional bestie would be and why.
**MAGA NEED NOT APPLY**
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