42f (f4m)TN Looking to get to know a new connection
First things first, I'm *notabot.
I'm a 42 year old married woman and I live in Tennessee. I have made connections on here in the past but feel like I may need to be a bit more specific on who I am and what I'm looking for so that I can find the right connection again.
My husband and I have a dead bedroom situation. It's difficult when you want to experience passion and desire but it's just not there anymore. I am not looking to chat with someone about why that part of my marriage isn't working. This is my solution, and I'm truly wanting to find that one person who I can connect with on every level. I don't have time for multiple connections. I want to find an exclusive and emotional connection. Eventually I would like to be able to meet in person so please be close to the south or able to travel.
A little about me: I'm a mom first a foremost. I love animals and have worked with them for over 20 years. I have much more time to put into this than I used to as I don't work full time anymore. Music is my therapy and I listen to a little of everything (except country, which is ironic being that I'm in Tennessee). I love to read and also love to write. I love being at home but then I have also grown a deep love of the outdoors since moving here, especially anything with water. Physically, I'm a BBW but very active. I know my size isn't ideal for some so I like to put that out there because I'm personally confident in my looks and size. Since I turned 40, I am trying to become a better version of myself both physically and mentally in order to live a happier and healthier life.
A little about my ideal match: Close to my age within a few years....I'd consider older but not younger. I would prefer someone who has kids but it's not a deal breaker (I've just found I can tend to relate with someone who also has kid(s). You also understand the frustrations of living in a dead bedroom situation and also that you're looking for that one connection to fill that void.
I've found that discretion but also vulnerability work best at these situations. We don't have to give every detail about our lives (I personally rid my life of all traditional social media during covid and have happily never gone back because the less people know about you the better in my opinion) but we have to be able to establish a connection and also attraction.
I would want to exchange pics pretty quickly beucsse I would absolutely hate to build a connection to find we aren't physically attracted to each other. Attraction is multi faceted with it being a mix of physical, emotional and intellectual and there needs to be enough of each to see if there is a match. Eventually I'm happy to move to another platform we both agree on.
No one connection is a one size fits all so I'll stop rambling and figure if you're someone that thinks you'd like to get to know me, send me a message. I do not reply to low effort or messages that feel like they've been copy and pasted. I know that it's a pain to put yourself out there and say something different every time but I took the time to make a post and you took the time to read it. Tell me why you think we may be a good match.