u/Hot-Strawberry-1983

43F | Ontario | Married | Looking for an Online Only Relationship

I’m trying something a little different because I know exactly what I’m looking for.

I’m not searching for endless small talk, and I’m not looking to jump straight into sexting. I want the kind of connection where those things naturally grow because we’ve built something real first.

I want the person I’m excited to tell about my day. The one who wants to hear about my workout, my wins at work, my kids, and all the random thoughts that don’t fit anywhere else.

Fitness is a big part of my life. I’m an early riser, in the gym before work, and usually in bed fairly early. Consistency, communication, and kindness matter far more to me than perfection.

I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7. We all have careers, families, responsibilities, and lives. What I do hope for is someone who enjoys intentionally making time for each other.

Think of it like virtual date nights.

Maybe it’s two or three evenings a week when we both know we’ll sit down with a drink, put our phones away, and just enjoy each other’s company. Some weeks life happens. A kid needs you, work gets crazy, plans change. Just tell me. Communication means everything to me.

I’m looking for someone emotionally mature, curious, and consistent. Someone who asks questions because they genuinely want to know me, and who enjoys conversations that go beyond “How was your day?”

If attraction grows—and I hope it does—I absolutely want the flirting, the chemistry, the intimacy, and eventually the sexting. But I want it to be built on trust and friendship first because that’s what makes it meaningful for me.

If you’re looking for a genuine online relationship where we choose each other, make time for each other, laugh together, flirt together, and become part of each other’s everyday lives, I’d love to hear from you.

Please be around my age (40+) and tell me more than just “Hi.” Tell me what you’re looking for, too.

43F | Ontario | Married | Looking for an Online Only Relationship

I’m trying something a little different because I know exactly what I’m looking for.

I’m not searching for endless small talk, and I’m not looking to jump straight into sexting. I want the kind of connection where those things naturally grow because we’ve built something real first.

I want the person I’m excited to tell about my day. The one who wants to hear about my workout, my wins at work, my kids, and all the random thoughts that don’t fit anywhere else.

Fitness is a big part of my life. I’m an early riser, in the gym before work, and usually in bed fairly early. Consistency, communication, and kindness matter far more to me than perfection.

I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7. We all have careers, families, responsibilities, and lives. What I do hope for is someone who enjoys intentionally making time for each other.

Think of it like virtual date nights.

Maybe it’s two or three evenings a week when we both know we’ll sit down with a drink, put our phones away, and just enjoy each other’s company. Some weeks life happens. A kid needs you, work gets crazy, plans change. Just tell me. Communication means everything to me.

I’m looking for someone emotionally mature, curious, and consistent. Someone who asks questions because they genuinely want to know me, and who enjoys conversations that go beyond “How was your day?”

If attraction grows—and I hope it does—I absolutely want the flirting, the chemistry, the intimacy, and eventually the sexting. But I want it to be built on trust and friendship first because that’s what makes it meaningful for me.

If you’re looking for a genuine online relationship where we choose each other, make time for each other, laugh together, flirt together, and become part of each other’s everyday lives, I’d love to hear from you.

Please be around my age (40+) and tell me more than just “Hi.” Tell me what you’re looking for, too.

I’m a 43 year old mom of 2. I’m a sports mom, in the winter you’ll find me at the rink freezing my behind off and in the spring I’m on the football field either freezing or baking in the heat, depending on the spring that mother nature has in store for us. I’m 5’6”, brown hair, brown eyes with freckles and glasses. I’m curvy and working on me in and out of the gym. Fitness is a passion of mine, food is where I struggle, pasta is a weakness of mine and I have trouble saying no to people when they want to order in food for lunch.

 

I’m feeling invisible in my marriage. We don’t talk much aside from work and the kids and the grind, time commitment and financial impact of hockey that we’ve lost ourselves over the years and we can’t seem to reconnect.

 

As such, I’m looking for my person. I’ve had success here before last year, but things ended with him pulling away and me finally not chasing after him because I realized I deserve better than that. So my account is new but I’m not new to Reddit.

 

I’m looking for love and to be loved. I loved my last OAP but he never felt the same way so I’m taking the approach this time of sharing from the start what I’m looking for. Not interested in a quick fling, I want long term. I want to fantasize about being with you for real, like there are no other partners or children standing in our way. Don’t worry, I’m not expecting you to leave your spouse because I have no interest in leaving mine, but fantasy is how you make this work. Let’s pretend we are a real couple and do real couple things online, together. We can make each other feel like the number 1 priority that we know either of isn’t.

 

I want to be supported, cheered on and not left to feel like I’m stupid for wanting to run a 5K or hit the gym and I want to be that for you too.

 

I’m looking for a man who’s ideally 40-50 years old, has some free evenings and weekends to check in and connect, one who’s a good communicator. I connect best with men who are in the same stage of life as me, teenage children or older, one who can talk sports with me, primarily hockey but I’m pretty well versed in Baseball too. Bonus if you are also on a fitness journey.  If you think you’d like to get to know this handful that I am, reach out and tell me what kind of music you listen to and tell me more about you and why you’re here.

 

Online only

*notabot