Does anyone else with hypersexuality find thirst traps exhausting?
I've noticed something lately, and I'm wondering if anyone else with hypersexuality feels the same.
I enjoy geek communities because I want to see people's creativity: cosplay, fan art, discussions, collections, and shared interests. But it feels like more and more cosplay posts are just thinly disguised OnlyFans advertisements. It's often a cheap costume with the focus almost entirely on showing skin rather than the character itself.
Normally I'd just scroll past. But because I struggle with hypersexuality, constant exposure to thirst traps is mentally exhausting. It keeps pulling my attention in a direction I'm actively trying to manage, and after seeing dozens of these posts across different subreddits, it starts to wear me down.
I'm not judging people for doing OnlyFans. Everyone has the right to make their own choices.
What makes it difficult is that hypersexuality has actually made me want *less* random sexual content in my everyday life, not more. It's a bit like trying to improve your diet while being surrounded by junk food everywhere you go. Even if you don't consume it, the constant exposure becomes tiring.
Does anyone else with hypersexuality experience this? If so, how do you deal with it without abandoning communities you genuinely enjoy?