r/hypersexuality

Im not sure what’s going on with me but I am extremely overstimulated. Don’t know if there’s a line between hyper sexuality and sex addiction. I think about it all the time, I’m still horny after sex, engaging in sex with multiple women and I’m still feeling unsatisfied. Masterbating after sex, multiple sessions in a day, like I’m overstimulated, and it doesn’t help that women dress more provocatively.

Im Just trying to find a balance between Ron Jeremy and a monastery monk.

P.s. If you want show me your pussy it’ll be appreciated

let me preface this by saying i’m well aware this is morally bad. trust me i already feel terrible about it. and it’s the primary reason ive stayed single for the past year. however nonetheless my inability to say no to any form of physical advance or just general flirting of any kind has led me to have cheated on nearly every one of my partners. the worst part is that in the moment the fact that im cheating and often the other person is too makes it even harder to stop. i feel so terrible the during and after but my body loves it. i feel like im fighting for control 24/7 and being single helps massively but i would also love to eventually end up in a monogamous relationship.

edit: for those telling me to try polyamory i appreciate the suggestion but it’s just not something i think fits me. hence specifying that i would like to eventually end up in a monogamous relationship.

I recently made a post and soon after got chat requests out of nowhere. One was asking how am I and how old I was, and the other was more inappropriate. I chose not to accept the requests and just move on.

It seems this is a recurring issue within this subreddit. I feel a bit angry, but also sad. I'm angry because of how predatory it is to target specifically people in this subreddit. I'm also sad because it sort of reminds me of my own past creepy behavior. I kind of feel like I deserve it and don't deserve to have an issue with it

For a few weeks its been harder and harder for me to orgasm by myself unless its a super risky situation. I called out and was home yesterday and was gooning for like 6 hours and unable to orgasm at all. I was crying in frustration. Not than an orgasm helps much but its a tiny releif.

If I'm with the right person or in a risky situation i can cum but just "normal" masturbating is doing nothing. Has anyone else delt with this? Idk what is causing it or how to make it stop .

I'll go first..... I started compulsive masturbation very, young. I am 49 now.

So most people have a fantasy or a set of fantasies that they use when they "engage" themselves. It can be about a certain person or situation. But in the HS mindset and always sexually engaged I feel like fantasies only work for so long before they start to lose their flair or erotism... So what then, what next? Of course we move on to something or someone new but sometimes for me, that moves the bar of what I fantasize about and what someone would find normal also into more taboos and unconventional things. Some of which at one point I would have been grossed out or physically repulsed by into the realm of more acceptable thoughts.... Of course this is all fantasy but if given the chance I've come to accept that I would actually try it, to that end makes me feel disgusted and disappointed in myself.... But those things that aren't acceptable fuel the next endorphin rush that makes me feel good until I think about it all.... It's going down a rabbit hole in a sense and being buried by the disappointment but it feels like I can't stop falling... Anyone ever feel the same or want to share thoughts about this. Thanks for reading and hopefully understanding

Hey so as a fellow HS individual it's very common for us to seek sex more than anything, but that becomes hard for single people like myself as our only option is to watch porn, jerk off and "Goon" and the second option is random hookups from all these apps and shit or just a hooker from a street and I am slowly starting to get into the hookup and hooker part where the urges are so strong I am even willing to pay someone to spend an hour with me.

In the past I have told myself and my therapist that I wish to avoid hookups as it's just an escape for me and I don't wanna make myself a whore by taking off my cloths in front of just anyone but the urges keep making me go this route and I often see myself leaving my apartment at 2 am for a hookup at a hotel or someone's apartment

How do I reduce this urge, I am honestly fine with gooning more as it involves my own presence and doesn't keep me dependent on someone but i need something more healthy, would appreciate any tips or advice :(

Dms are open too but just be respectful please

first - DO NOT DM ME

My hs waxes and wanes with my hormones, but when I'm up I'm way up; and I'm more often up than down. I could (and have) literally laid in bed for an entire day "relieving" myself. As a biological cis female, I could orgasm back to back to back into exhaustion and still not get enough. I've been wondering if other women experience the same drive? How do males experience hs..... Like, how many times do you *need* to cum in a day (24 hr period)? Do you categorize us as sex addiction? Just looking for insight and perspective.

Hello All,

Have anyone discovered throughout the years that hypersexuality links with hyperspermia? Do you have any experience with that? I've been wondering about that for like 10+ years and didn't have a place to ask.
It started with me being a teen and being curious about my body, watching porn and also masturbating. I thought my shots were "normal" and that every other guy got the same but after some time I discovered (well... girls told me) that it's not normal for sure.

As recently as this past January, I was jerking off twice per day, at least. Working from home only made this worse. While it felt good, I realized that I didn’t like how I felt about myself afterwards.

I have been dabbling in chastity on and off for a few years and wanted to see if locking up would help. The results have been somewhat mixed.

On the one hand, I’ve SIGNIFICANTLY reduced the amount I masturbate. I’ve physically jerked myself off to completion exactly twice since the start of February. That said, I now have been masturbating anally about once per week in that same time period. I’ve also been able to cum by gently tapping my balls repeatedly, though I’ve only done this a time or two.

However, I also watch significantly more porn now and find myself scrolling Reddit constantly. I’m able to do this while working, but I’m looking for ways to focus even more.

Not sure if anyone else has tried this approach, but I figured I’d throw that out there.

I had a really good run for a few weeks where I wasn’t watching porn or doing anything bad but I have completely slipped. How to deal with the guilt and get back on track?

I see a lot of ppl got manipulated into slutting themselves out on omegle and only afterwords sought to get that same spike of dopamine/fear again. Sounds familiar?

I really enjoy the beginnings of relationships , the wildness of meeting someone new and the thrill of sexting with strangers .

I’m just a 50 year old woman married to a 63m who will never be able to have sex again. So maybe I just wish I was having so much sex that I could be considered hypersexual. Fuck my life really sucks. Maybe I’m just frustrated and venting.

Hi everyone,, I have BPD and always had to deal with addictions, being sex one of them. I've been sa'ed before which enhanced my hypersexuality long ago.

Yet, now I'm truly desperate, feeling I haven't had consistent, satisfying sex in years.

I used to post online but things always get out of proportion and end up masturbating all day to comments, or people get way too weird (e.g. using my nudes to pretend they are me to trade).

I'm discussing this with my therapist tomorrow. I can't live like this I can't even masturbate with her overwhelming this feels ..

I've(M20) been struggling a lot mentally lately, and I've been thinking I might be dealing with hypersexuality. I think it started to take root whenever I would see sexual content at a young age. I discovered porn right before turning 10 years old, which is also when I first started puberty. I also masturbated for the first time. This was the summer before I started middle school. I started to have sexual thoughts about girls, teachers, etc. I did feel some guilt for those thoughts. I even subconsciously separated the thoughts from girls that I had crushes on.

I also started to act weird and creepy at times towards girls as middle school went on. It culminated during my 8th grade year at 12 when I randomly developed a major crush on a girl. I would stare at her a lot, as I was too scared to approach her. I started to become obsessed. Weirdly enough, I don't recall having sexual thoughts of her at the time. I didn't act any other ways or say anything inappropriate towards her, but I felt porn could've affected me subconsciously. I realized how uncomfortable I had made her, and I felt a lot of shame and guilt. I also developed suicidal thoughts because of this moment, which still persists to this day.

I thought I was less creepy during my first year of high school, but after thinking it over, I got worse. I would get crushes on girls I found attractive and just act weird. I had trouble mentally dealing with sexual thoughts affecting my friendships with girls. I remember I was telling a friend that was moving that I would miss her. I had sexual thoughts flooding my mind during that moment that I tried to supress. It felt like I was living a double life, and I was an imposter faking any good intentions.

I still feel really guilty about how I acted towards a girl at the end of the year. I had approached her and just stared at her so I could sign her yearbook. She happily initiated the conversation, and we signed each other's books. I don't like the sexual thoughts I had leading up to that moment. Another major thing was when I was talking to a girl in class, and I tried to show off my bulge. Thankfully, I don't think they noticed, but I shouldn't have done that in the first place. This was probably the worst sexual behavior I've engaged in. I'm not even sure why I did that, as I was very insecure about my penis being visible due to people staring in the past and locker room embarrassment that year.

I've made small improvements over the years since, and I had a lot more I wanted to talk about, but I don't want to make the post too long. Maybe in another post. One moment that still sticks out to me was during my senior year when I was having sexual thoughts in the middle of class one day. I looked around the classroom for a moment, and I just saw everyone talking with friends and doing their work. I felt sad at how everyone was able to act normal, while I'm having all these sexual fantasies running through my head. I just didn't realize how abnormal and creepy I was this whole time.

Thank you for your time, and I apologize for the length of the post.

I set my own personal record staying away from reddit. I'm pretty proud but now I'm relapsing. I just can't stay away from kinky porn and chatting with others about kinks. So, here we go again.

21f college student. ever since i lost my vcard to my first bf it feels like i have no self control. we broke up and now i keep craving dick but it’s so awk/kinda dangerous trying to meet ppl just to get stuffed it also doesn’t help that i look like a nerd lollll ovulating rn and feeling so over everything, just wanted to vent ig🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️

When me and my partner do get around to sex (he has low libido) it's incredible, and so worth the wait. But I get so tremendously frustrated that I can't stay satisfied for long.

The thoughts start creeping back just hours afterwards and I'm lucky to get him to go for a round one, let alone a round two.

It's even WORSE when I'm on my period, it's like on hyperdrive and is so frustrating!

My wife is well aware of how hyper sexual I am and doesn’t mind me getting that energy out online, she even finds it hot reading DM’s and whatnot. She said she doesn’t mind me having fun with someone on my trip as long as I’m safe but I know she wouldn’t be a huge fan of it.

Even though she made that comment I still don’t want to give into the impulse of finding some stranger to hook up with even thought I really really want to. Not looking for judgement or anything so be kind pls. We have an amazing sex life I just enjoy novelty more than I’d like