u/Beautiful-Air24153

Hey everyone, I'm 23 and never been with a woman before. I'm sorry for the slightly misleading title but didn't know that else would be appropriate. So I booked an escort last October and went for it. She was very nice, understanding and took things slow. However, I was not able to get hard enough for penetration. She said it was likely due to nerves and that I'm meeting a new person in a new environment.

Forward it to yesterday, I booked her again because I had been busy with work and uni. I encountered the same problem. I just couldn't get hard at the initial few mins. It was no where hard enough for penetration and that was very embarrassing for me. She said it was likely due to nerves. However, I think I had a better convo with her, I feel like I was a bit more relaxed than last time rather than being alert all the time.

So I would please like to know, if it is the nerves and anxiety, or is it because of me masturbating every 2 days or so. It is my second time meeting her, so I felt like anxiety shouldn't have played a role at all. I do not watch adult content. I have a relatively healthy diet and I stay fit.

Thanks in advance!

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u/Beautiful-Air24153 — 20 days ago