u/Beautiful-Company493

So I matched with this girl on a dating app about 2 months ago. We quickly moved to Instagram. Early on, I told her I think she’s gorgeous and asked if I could send her money.

She immediately agreed, and I was honest about my motives. She liked it.

Important context: she’s completely vanilla: full-time office job, doesn’t do content, and had never even heard of findom before. It was all new and interesting to her.

I’ve been slowly pushing to take things to the next level. more control from her, fun stuff, etc.

The other day I casually asked if she’d been on any dates recently. She replied “Do you realllly wanna know?” (she knows I’m into being cucked but wasn’t 100% sure I wanted details).I said yes. She opened up about a guy she went on a first date with and told me she’s meeting him again tomorrow. I told her I’d love to pay for both of them and asked if that would be exciting. She agreed. I asked for details about him (looks, personality, etc.) and confirmed I’d be interested in them using me together. She said she’ll ask him tomorrow. She mentioned he’s very dominant and she would submit to him. From what she said, it sounds like he’d probably be open to it. She thinks they’ll text me tomorrow night after they talk.

This is my first time ever doing anything like this in real life. Questions for you guys:

• Any advice for a first-timer? How should I behave when/if they message me?
• What should I watch out for?
• If they ask for fun ideas, what would you suggest (humiliating, service, financial, etc.)?
• How do I keep the dynamic exciting without coming on too strong?

Also, feel free to ask me anything. happy to gossip and share more details. Thanks in advance!

For the past few months, I’ve been thinking about this idea. I don’t think it’s like any other.

I don’t like men but there’s just this one idea that I am low key liking. Some men are so dominant that you can’t resist.

Serving is not about myself, it’s about knowing my place as a submissive. Serving the more dominant.

I’ve been programming myself for the past few months and I successfully done that with female dommes. I have served non sexually and focused on the service more than myself.

I wanna try it out this time by feeling the dominance of a man. How can I find a patient dom that is willing to guide me through it?

I wanna feel the power and domination of a man. I have never tried it in my entire life. All i know is that I am really submissive and I wanna learn how to obey and serve anyone who is more dominant than me. Serving is not about myself it’s about making the dominant happy.

My country is lowkey conservative, and being a paypig here is hard. I really wanna find someone from my country or at least somewhere close. I find luck sometimes to send to someone and serve them but it doesnt last long.

Do you think I should use dating apps for it? If so, what’s a good approach?