Gf warming to the idea?
Me (30m) and my gf (28f) have been together for nearly 3 years. Our relationship is great inside and outside of the bedroom. About a year into our relationship I mentioned to her I find the idea of watching her with someone else an incredible turn on. I’m not into the humiliation side of things, I just enjoy the thought of watching her in pleasure.
At first she was reluctant to talk about the idea and thought I was weird for wanting something like that. I tried to keep the fantasy to myself since then however it is increasingly hard!
However recently we’ve been speaking about it a little more, I think her first thought was I wanted to sit in the corner and masturbate while watching and she was completely against that idea. I think she’s more curious to the idea of me being involved (that was my idea anyway)
We purchased a dildo and recently I’ve used it on her while she went down on me, she later told me she found it arousing and has agreed to try adding some dirty talk next time.
Whether this stays as a fantasy or we act upon it I’m not sure but at the moment it’s just fun! Life’s too short not to have fun and experience things!