u/BenHogan1971

Maybe we'll just chat tonight, (and that's cool! bring that banter!) but ultimately, I'd love to truly connect with a younger woman in the NYC metro area.

You can be from 22-45... I'm not picky on age, but extremely picky on your brain, and the way you conduct conversations and chat exchanges - i.e., don't bore me! Television escapes me, and I could care less for pop culture, Taylor Swift, The Bachelorette, etc., so be cognizant of that if we connect. Somewhat kinky, but it doesn't have to be about that at all.

You're probably more the in shape, girl-next-door, reads books at Barnes and Noble, reader/writer/thinker/scholarly type, than the Hermes and Prada seeking Instagrammer, and I am an old-school, sorta preppy, clean-cut, dark haired (but graying), former athlete, professor/teacher type older man. I am single, with children, sorta weird hours of work. Please be flexible with my time availability if we connect.

I know that all sounds very serious, but I can be as goofy AF, charming, witty, and always ready to drop Dad jokes, puns, quips, and funny old movie lines, as well as a "that's what she said!" joke, so don't judge me as stand-offish or aloof. I definitely want to know all about you, and will ask millions of questions, while ultimately supporting you as only a Dad can, while acting all romantic and mushy in a sweet way.

Let's chat tonight and learn more about it each other.

Please!!!!! Don't just reach out with "hello" or "hi."

Maybe we'll just chat tonight, (and that's cool! bring that banter!) but ultimately, I'd love to truly connect with a younger woman in the NYC metro area.

You can be from 22-45... I'm not picky on age, but extremely picky on your brain, and the way you conduct conversations and chat exchanges - i.e., don't bore me! Television escapes me, and I could care less for pop culture, Taylor Swift, etc., so be cognizant of that if we connect. Somewhat kinky, but it doesn't have to be about that at all.

You're probably more the in shape, girl-next-door, reads books at Barnes and Noble, reader/writer/thinker type, than the Hermes and Prada seeking Instagrammer, and I am an old-school, sorta preppy, clean-cut, dark haired (but graying), former athlete, professor/teacher type older man. I am single, with children, sorta weird hours of work. Please be flexible with my time availability.

I know that all sounds very serious, but I can be as goofy AF, and always ready to drop Dad jokes, puns, quips, and funny old movie lines, as well as a "that's what she said!" joke, so don't judge me as stand-offish or aloof. I definitely want to know all about you, and will ask millions of questions, while ultimately supporting you as only a Dad can, while acting all romantic and mushy in a sweet way.

Let's chat tonight and learn more about it each other. Please don't just reach out with "hello" or "hi."

Truly endeavoring to meet my younger muse/inspiration in the big city.

Maybe you're a student seeking an older authority figure, or just younger by a few years? I'd mark the range from 20-40. Either way, since I don't consider myself this close to 60 (and don't believe I look it!), you shouldn't view that as an obstacle, and rather, a pathway. I believe that since I am naturally very mature and calm and forceful, an age differential relationship would really make us fly together, and I'll be the best version of myself in the teacher/leader role.

I am fiercely attracted to thinkers and creative types - maybe librarians, musicians, students, out-of-the-box careered women who have their own opinions and enjoy reading and good music.

Hoping you are slender and enjoy physical activity. I have a classic "Dad Bod" with boyish dimples and kind eyes, strong hands, nice legs, 5-9, 185. Happy to exchange photos.

Since I have children, hoping you'll be flexible if we match up. I am single and divorced for many years.

Let's connect if this sounds appealing.

Sincerely, D

This chill, introspective, kind, mannered, and supportive single Dad desires to meet someone between the ages of 25-45 for a long term relationship, and/or a strong physical connection.

Ultimately, you live in or near NYC, can carry on conversations beyond the weather or what's on TV, or Instagram and Tik Tok. Seeking a writer/thinker/student/therapist/creative type who holds opinions and ideas and isn't chasing social media. Admittedly, here we are on Reddit, but you get my point.

I'm a single Dad, hard-working, and try to spend whatever time I can with my children. Hopefully, you'll be understanding and flexible with this. I care about big ideas, particularly the state of our democracy at the moment, and my Aquarius tendencies are pretty obvious in life..... I hate that I mold to whatever is written about Aquarians!

Trying to get to the beach as much as possible will be on my list this summer, and of course, as an older, white, athletic male - I play golf. (Deal with it, LOL). Romance is important to me, and I love good vocabulary, reading, journaling, cooking, keeping a tidy home, listening to rock music. I am not fat, nor am I ripped - let's say it's a classic Dad bod, and I hope you are slender and somewhat athletically inclined.

I'm certain that my fatherly, professorial qualities will allow me to flourish in an age gap dynamic, and I deeply desire to meet someone that wants to come along for that ride. Reach out!