u/Bensag111

Hello, 39M here in an open marriage with 38F and recently starting to uncover more and more about kinks and experiences to try. Would love to get into some BDSM and dominant role but everyone seems to want experience. The wifey seems semi semi-interested but not much beyond that it seems.

What sort of approach should be taken on getting things started with someone? Ideally, I would say someone who's a Sub and likes BDSM and having a Dom to provide feedback but that seems unlikely and unheard of.