u/Berry-459

To be clear, yes, I’m cheating. I’m looking for you if you read this all and think that you have what it takes to be a good AP and that I seem like the right fit for you. The terms mistress or FWB works too. You just have to like the excitement and understand that it isn’t forever as it’s just based on pleasure. No one needs to know outside of us. You have to be worth it.

Lots of ai slop here in r4r Toronto it seems and I decided to be as real as possible. While I didn’t plan on this being a long message, I figured to put as much info here as possible to filter out anyone that isn’t a fit. Women only. If you can’t put the effort in into reading it all then you are definitely not the right fit for me.

I had an account in 2024 that I deleted as I met someone interesting from here. This is not a success post because I respect our privacy too much but after an initial video chat, we knew we were the right type of people for each other, and we continued to have something discreet and enjoyable. We mutually needed to move on and I feel it was time to slowly see what’s out there. So here I am…

I’m 46. You’re too young or too old only if you feel like it. Prefer over 25.

Physically I am 6’ tall, medium build, charming smile, salt and pepper distinguished good looks. I’m white with a euro background.

You can be from any background and I appreciate the female from from super fit to the right curves. You have to be clean and willing to prove it. Protection is a must as we get comfortable with each other. The more open we communicate about the important items the better it is.

Outside of liking to make you feel satisfied, I am a passionate and attentive lover who enjoys the moment. Lots of people throw the dom word around and don’t seem to know exactly what it means. If you are looking for a very hardcore D/s this isn’t it. I like to give give direction but it’s more of a soft dom approach in the bedroom. I’m looking for you to please me and do as I ask, but it’s all within reason after building up the trust and desire. You may be a strong personality in th real world but will enjoy being a little submissive with me. You can sometimes assert yourself as I promote self expression. I put effort in and expect some effort.

I like hearing your slutty thoughts. I like to call you a good girl, as cheesy as it is, when you make me happy. Sex is so personal and I’m open to your preferences.

You need to be reliable and that means a good communicator. There isn’t an expectation to be available 24 seven as I’m not but if you say you’re going to do something then you should be able to follow it up and do it. Life gets in the way, and there isn’t any pressure but you have to communicate that.

I’m open to ongoing and not really looking for explicitly ONS. A reoccurring FWB is ideal. We have to like each others company. Texting on and off, meeting spontaneously are possible if willing. We can’t be very public about things, so don’t expect romantic dinners and evenings.

I am attached and not in an ENM relationship. What that means is, I’m looking for something very private. You don’t have to be attached but you have to respect my situation. In general daytime during the weekday, our ideal. Some early evenings and some weekend days may be possible, but if you can only meet in the evening on the weekend outside of work hours, we don’t align. I do have a lot of things on my plate from work to home life. I work a lot in an office position and that allows me some flexibility with how I use my time. I can figure out how to prioritize you, even if you seem exactly close by.

I like the term sapiosexual because I am attracted to intelligence. I enjoy pleasuring and being pleasured. I’d be open to exploring what you want. My last AP reached out because she had a thing for race play that she was curious about as she always wanted to be with an older white man. It started the conversation but quickly blossomed elsewhere. My point is, I’m open to conversation and ideas. I’d like to see you in your nicest tight black dress, business casual and even your comfy aritzia joggers. Dolled up or completely casual.

So if this long ramble is something you are curious about, message me.

To be clear, yes, I’m cheating. I’m looking for you if you read this all and think that you have what it takes to be a good AP and that I seem like the right fit for you. The terms mistress or FWB works too. You just have to like the excitement and understand that it isn’t forever as it’s just based on pleasure. No one needs to know outside of us. You have to be worth it.

Lots of ai slop here in r4r Toronto it seems and I decided to be as real as possible. While I didn’t plan on this being a long message, I figured to put as much info here as possible to filter out anyone that isn’t a fit. Women only. If you can’t put the effort in into reading it all then you are definitely not the right fit for me.

I had an account in 2024 that I deleted as I met someone interesting from here. This is not a success post because I respect our privacy too much but after an initial video chat, we knew we were the right type of people for each other, and we continued to have something discreet and enjoyable. We mutually needed to move on and I feel it was time to slowly see what’s out there. So here I am…

I’m 46. You’re too young or too old only if you feel like it. Prefer over 25.

Physically I am 6’ tall, medium build, charming smile, salt and pepper distinguished good looks. I’m white with a euro background.

You can be from any background and I appreciate the female from from super fit to the right curves. You have to be clean and willing to prove it. Protection is a must as we get comfortable with each other. The more open we communicate about the important items the better it is.

Outside of liking to make you feel satisfied, I am a passionate and attentive lover who enjoys the moment. Lots of people throw the dom word around and don’t seem to know exactly what it means. If you are looking for a very hardcore D/s this isn’t it. I like to give give direction but it’s more of a soft dom approach in the bedroom. I’m looking for you to please me and do as I ask, but it’s all within reason after building up the trust and desire. You may be a strong personality in th real world but will enjoy being a little submissive with me. You can sometimes assert yourself as I promote self expression. I put effort in and expect some effort.

I like hearing your slutty thoughts. I like to call you a good girl, as cheesy as it is, when you make me happy. Sex is so personal and I’m open to your preferences.

You need to be reliable and that means a good communicator. There isn’t an expectation to be available 24 seven as I’m not but if you say you’re going to do something then you should be able to follow it up and do it. Life gets in the way, and there isn’t any pressure but you have to communicate that.

I’m open to ongoing and not really looking for explicitly ONS. A reoccurring FWB is ideal. We have to like each others company. Texting on and off, meeting spontaneously are possible if willing. We can’t be very public about things, so don’t expect romantic dinners and evenings.

I am attached and not in an ENM relationship. What that means is, I’m looking for something very private. You don’t have to be attached but you have to respect my situation. In general daytime during the weekday, our ideal. Some early evenings and some weekend days may be possible, but if you can only meet in the evening on the weekend outside of work hours, we don’t align. I do have a lot of things on my plate from work to home life. I work a lot in an office position and that allows me some flexibility with how I use my time. I can figure out how to prioritize you, even if you seem exactly close by.

I like the term sapiosexual because I am attracted to intelligence. I enjoy pleasuring and being pleasured. I’d be open to exploring what you want. My last AP reached out because she had a thing for race play that she was curious about as she always wanted to be with an older white man. It started the conversation but quickly blossomed elsewhere. My point is, I’m open to conversation and ideas. I’d like to see you in your nicest tight black dress, business casual and even your comfy aritzia joggers. Dolled up or completely casual.

So if this long ramble is something you are curious about, message me.