r/r4rtoronto

34F4M #Toronto - JOI over a call?

I am working from home today and I can’t focus on my work, I’m too horny!

Looking for a man willing to hop on a Discord call and give me instructions on how to touch myself. No photos, no videos, no names, just some anonymous auditory fun - I’ll thank you and hang up when I’m done 🙃

Might be a long shot, but we never know!

NO SNAPCHAT OR TELEGRAM

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 24 hours ago

20M4A #Scarborough Down for Anything

Just as the title says I’m down for anything tonight. Asian, bicurious, clean and disease free, 5’ 9’’, 5.5 in, located on finch. I’m just getting off work looking for some fun tonight. Can’t host but I’m down to travel or maybe public 🤷‍♂️.

Send a pic stats. Trynna skip the small talk for in person.

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u/NinjaApple0994 — 12 hours ago

[45NB4A] #Toronto - AFAB Masc looking for a confident “teacher”.

This is a long post, apologies in advance 😏

Before you read the rest - I’m looking for a confident AMAB nb or cis-guy, (ideally 30+), who is genuinely into queer/masc AFAB bodies. If you don’t know what these terms mean, this ad probably isn’t for you.

About me: I’m 45, queer, very masc-presenting AFAB human. I have short hair, a bunch of tattoos, stretched ears, a tight shaved pussy, and I fall somewhere between pretty fit and a little squishy. I’m typically vers, but in this scenario I’m looking to bottom. I have very little experience with cis-dudes, hence this post.

What I’m looking for: Someone confident and experienced to take on the role of teacher/trainer: establishing boundaries and giving clear instructions as we explore things I'm curious about (or feel intimidated by - e.g. anal, dp) plus anything else you might want to teach me. Looking for someone who gets off on the psychological side of dominance, is patient, communicative, and genuinely queer-friendly.

My fantasy is that we start deliberately in an almost clinical way. No need to pretend it's instantly sexy, but ideally the experience has us both feeling decidedly less clinical over time.

If this sounds like your particular flavour of specific, tell me a bit about yourself, what appeals to you most about this dynamic, and what you’d want to teach me, especially if the idea of starting clinically sounds as hot to you as it does to me.

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u/FTM_Quinn — 18 hours ago

36 F4M #Toronto Yorkville - looking for casual FWB

Yes, this is a new account with like no karma and an auto-generated username, but given what I understand happens to girls' inboxes when they post on here... I thought a throwaway account would be sensible. 😅

Recently out of a relationship and just looking for something fun, casual, and respectful. Ideally you're free this weekend because I am feeling friskyyyy 🤭 I've never been a ONS type of girl, so I'm seeking more of an ongoing FWB. I'm chill/cool, no drama... And looove my life. Really just looking for someone who can rail me goooood, and is interesting/fun to spend some time with.

Me:

- East Asian (Korean with glamorous blonde highlights and long hair ✨), 5'5", and 125lbs. Slim and easy to toss around ;) I was born and raised here though 🇨🇦, so if you fetishize Kpop and kdrama stars...move along..

- I do not have big boobs, so if you're a titty guy... I'm not for you. I do have an absolutely fantastic ass though 🍑

- DDF, and only have one sexual partner at a time.

You (absolute requirements. Do not DM if you don't meet them).

- 35+, attractive/fit, manscaped. DDF & have good hygiene. Single.

- Can host. (I can too, so it'd be fun to explore each other's neighbourhoods. I'm convinced I live in the best area in the city and I make for a great tour guide :p).

- Love to lick 😻 (Beyond this, I won't get too sexually explicit in this post. You'll have to find out more!).

We'll meet in public to ensure mutual safety, etc. Be efficient in your initial communications: tell me what you look like, age, location, about you, etc. 💋

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u/TimelyTry9651 — 2 days ago

19F4M #Toronto - chubby girl

Hey I’m black, f, 19. Being a thicker girl is so hard in the dating community lol. I was always skinny now I'm bigger/thiccer. Was wondering if there are any guys who like bigger girls or are even into feederism or Wtv I just got into so idk that much about it. So if u fw big girls HMU

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u/Friendship8626 — 2 days ago

31F4M #Toronto - Looking for Asian guys for group fun

Hey! I’m a 31 year old Brazilian woman living in Toronto. I’m looking to connect with a few Asian guys (21+) who might be interested in a group experience with me.

My boyfriend is Asian, and I’ve been curious about having an all-Asian group experience for a while, so I thought I’d see who’s out there

I’d like to chat first, exchange pics, talk about boundaries, and make sure there’s mutual attraction and a good vibe before planning anything.

If you’re interested, send me a DM with a little bit about yourself and a pic! :)

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u/Western_Street3953 — 2 days ago

37MF4M #Toronto - looking for BWC for oral

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Looking for a BWC for my gf to go down on. I will be watching and taking a video (no face)

We can host downtown Toronto, looking for NOW (near Yonge and bloor) sooner the better

Just oral from her, not looking for anyone rough/dom, just oral and you can cum on her tits or face.

please tell us your cock size in your dm

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34 F4M #Mississauga - let's see if we click! FWB

Been lurking here for a bit and figure it's about time for me to give this a try!

Me: Curious, affectionate, and a little mischievous. I’m looking for a guy who can keep up with good conversation, make me laugh, and isn’t afraid to flirt a little. If you’re genuine, confident, and fun, say hi. 😉

I'm a brunette Caucasian, 34F, average height (5'6-5'7), slim. (Definitely not BBW if that's your type keep looking!). Divorced, no kids. DDF and will verify. I'm in Mississauga and looking for a casual FWB.

Looking for: M, 30-45, great sense of humor, attractive. I'd like an FWB with a genuine connection so we can have fun and get along, but otherwise want to keep things casual. Send me a little blurb about yourself and let's take it from there!

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u/Logical-Bee-5724 — 3 days ago

28F4M #Stouffville - FWB short east asian

Hello luvs,

I am looking for a consistent FWB, not a random hookup. I have a very high sex drive, so sexual compatibility matters a lot to me. I’m not interested in mediocre, low-effort sex just for the sake of you nutting.. If you’re looking for something quick and done, we probably won’t be compatible. I want someone attentive, enthusiastic, communicative, and genuinely interested in making things mutually enjoyable.

Abt me: 28yo , 5'1, 36DD, chubby, and an workaholic. I enjoy movies, spontaneous plans, going out, and overall many little things in life.

Abt you: tall, mature, extremely clean, must be able to host, above 5".

I have a great group of friends already and I’m genuinely happy with the people in my life, so this isn’t coming from loneliness. I just don’t meet many new people outside of work/my usual circle and would like to change that.

I also don’t want to spend three months talking before figuring out if there’s chemistry. I’m pretty straightforward and happy to discuss what we’re both looking for, interests, boundaries, and compatibility early on.

Attraction matters too. If you message me, please send a SFW picture either with your first msg or right after i accept the chat request. I’d rather see whether there’s initial attraction before we both invest time chatting. If I’m interested, I’ll happily send one back. No hard feelings if we’re not each other’s type, but please don’t just message “pic?” or ask me to send mine first.

Personality-wise, I’m affectionate and love being praised, cared for, and made to feel wanted. I enjoy attentive, loving intimacy, but I’m also pretty open-minded and flexible with dynamics. With trust and good communication, I’m interested in exploring more assertive or adventurous consensual dynamics too, including things like free-use dynamics.

I’m looking for someone consistent, attentive, generous, and genuinely enjoys taking care of the person they’re seeing. I don’t want something transactional or someone who disappears for weeks and randomly comes back. I want something ongoing where we actually enjoy each other.

Ideally we can hang out, watch movies, flirt, banter, cuddle, have fun, and see where the chemistry takes us. I’m not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I do want genuine connection and affection alongside the physical side.

I’m in York Region, so someone reasonably close would be ideal. I tend to be more attracted to Caucasian, East Asian, or Middle Eastern guys.

If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, your interests/dynamics, and send a SFW picture with your first message. Let’s establish the attraction, then actually talk and see if we click.

See you soon xx!

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u/DuchessDuckyHehe — 3 days ago

44 F4F #GTA - these dudes are exhausting

Ladies and theydies,

Rule #1 in this thread gets broken far too frequently and I think its time we stop putting up with the bullshit.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I'm sick to death of receiving messages from men who thought they'd give it a shot and see if I'd skirt my boundaries for them.

If we start giving in to them, they are going to keep behaving poorly.

Send the offenders to the mods. Teach them that we won't put up with it any more.

RESPECT US!!

Here is the rule for those that are unsure.

  1. Follow the Post Requirements

If you do not meet the post requirements, DO NOT message OP.

Disregarding post requirements and shooting your shot is poor etiquette. It makes it harder for right candidates to connect and you rob others of the opportunity by creating unncessary inbox clutter. It is also disrepectful to the time, effort and boundaries OP has set out in their post.

1st offence = 14 day ban

2nd offence = mute

If OP personally reports you for breaking rule 1, you will be banned for 14 days

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 4 days ago
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24F4M #GTA - Pillow Princess looking for a MUNCH

Hi, this is a short post but I’m looking for someone who has an appetite to eat pussy. I’ve been itching to feel a warm tongue inside me and I’m curious about face sitting as well. I’d love to be EATEN OFF the bone by someone who is patient and enjoys pleasing. I’m not looking to reciprocate so please make sure you’re okay with having ntg done in return.

About Me:
24F, black, 5’4, big bouncy boobs, thick , ddf , clean (tested- July 2026), 420 friendly

You:
24-32, BLACK(non-negotiable), average to handsome looking , ddf, clean, able to host in the east GTA

Send me a dm if you’re interested in being fed a warm and juicy meal 😏

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u/Acrobatic-Box-1101 — 3 days ago
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23F30M4M #GTA - looking for M with a very big dick to fulfill first hotwife fantasy

F23, have never taken a really big dick and I’ve always wondered/fantasized what it would be like. Me and my husband bought a very large dildo and I was surprised to find that I took it easily, and that it made me feel like I lost my virginity again it was so different to sex with my husband and previous partners. Looking to explore trying the real thing with the right bull. Hoping to find a fit, attractive BWC or BBC that gets turned on by giving me my first big dick experience. DMs turned on don’t be shy 😉

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u/MeanPear823 — 4 days ago

31 F4M #downtown Toronto- free day in downtown tomorrow

Hey

It’s been a long time since I have posted on here but I have had a lot of success so why not. So I am usually from east end but took a day off work and decided to come down to Toronto to have some fun.

About me

5 9 black super curvy and pretty face amazing smile. (I alway smile a lot when I am having a good time)

About you

Able to meet up today for a small meeting first coffee lunch etc and see where it goes

I like a confident guy with a great smile

Not attached (sorry but had issues in the past)

Sending what you look like, (short on time so)

Also the ability to talk about something other than sex

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u/AssumptionWorth9584 — 4 days ago

22MF4M #GTA looking for a bi guy to join :) (please read post)

Hi! We’re looking for a bi brown or black guy to join us for some fun.

Some things about us:
- We are both born here, our ideal location to meet up would be a hotel room
- The guy is tall and fit (about 6’5). He’s bi, both top and bottom and is quite kinky. He’s mostly dominate.
- The girl is mid height and thicker (5’9). She’s straight, and also kinky. She’s submissive and loves receiving pleasure.

We’re looking for someone who’s between the ages of 22-25, whose bi, either black or indian/middle eastern ethnicity preferred (but any works!), whose kinky and hung

Looking forward to your messages!

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u/Separate_Lab3359 — 4 days ago

19M4M #Toronto - looking to experience a femboy for the first time

A bit curious about FB’s and been wanting to experience one so I thought maybe try give it a shot and see where things go.

I have a high libido and down for almost everything.

Unable to host unfortunately but I’m willing to travel as long you’re fine with that.

(Actually be a femboy)

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u/Beautiful-Contest545 — 3 days ago
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28M4A #GTA- if this is for you, you will be happy I promise

EDIT: SORRY I DIDNT KNOW MY DMS WERE OFF, they are on now :)

Hello everyone,

A little about me:
I’m a respectful 29 year old Indian guy looking to be very disrespectful, i currently live in the peel region, and also have a room for rent in the Durham region which i go to usually a couple times a week as i got to school there. I am not ripped per say but im fit and stay active, pretty much a dad bod and im working on building it more. I’m 6ft, have broad shoulders and little bit of definition. I also work full time. And go to the gym nearly everyday. And i work in mississauga

I’m very open minded, and usually dont say no, very kinky as well but most of my kinks revovle around dominating, which i think stems from a type of control kink.

Dick wise im just under 7 inches, a grower not a shower, a little over an inch in girth and i curve to the right.

What im looking for:

I am STD free, and im 420 friendly, usually do not like to drink but im willing to. And i want someone who is STD free

For couples:
So this can go all ways. I’m cool with being filmed, humiliating the husband, double blowjobs, playing with the wife alone, playing in a playful manner. The only thing i will not be doing is fucking a man.

Like i said earlier, there are very little things i would say no to.

For the women in relationships, please refer to the section below.

For single women:
Complete submission. I am very dominant in nature so i prefer to have full control. I am the type that if you disobey, i will punish you may that be spanks, or orgasm control. There would be no scar, or scars like that, but you might be sore or red. My favourite is to leave handprints on ass cheeks.

Now this also means that when we meet, i would be controlling what i want you to wear, what i want to do, where i want to do it. And so forth. Obviously there will be things discussed to see what your limits are and such, but overall it would be for both our pleasures.

I have had encounters where all i wanted to do was eat pussy so i would call you and tell you to lay down and just eat you out, for how ever long as I please, maybe make you cum once, or more, or just casually play with you while i scroll on my phone. Or i might just have you suck me off till i cum, or i might just fuck, or it could be all of it. The idea is that you would not know what to expect. You would only know what i want you to dress like. And this would be extremely discreet.

This would be ideal if you like to please and like cum but we can discuss the kinks

I understand not everyone goes to the gym so In terms of appearance, there needs to be a mutual attraction obviously. I am usually draw to woman who are fitter or skinnier. race and that stuff does not matter. But if there is a pretty face, im cool with that too. I guess what im trying to say is, as long as you are proportionate, im cool with it as i know that thats more generally a normal body, and i dont mind. Im also interested in a connection, as you would be the only one I’d be involved with

**Bonus points if you:**
Can host (although I can)
Are of middle eastern, Asian, or desi
Can drive (although I can, even pick you up and drop you off)
Have a cheating kink
Have colored eyes

For Men:
From men i only want head, im not interested in reciprocating. I dont care what you look like, where you are from, for you guys it would be a blow and go situation, you come, empty my balls and leave.

Let me know if you are interested

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u/Final-Educator-5040 — 4 days ago

20 F4A #Toronto - Yours to devour!

Recently moved to the KW area (boo, missing Toronto already) but going back to DT Toronto for a uni event later this week. I’m SUPER pent up and would love someone with a skilled tongue to eat me out. I like the idea of being your own personal buffet to feast on as long as you’d like 😉 You tell me how you want to eat it and I’ll follow your command

Originally put out a post a month ago with a similar fantasy (you coming into my place and finding me on the bed ready for you) but didn’t manage to coordinate anything due to moving plans changing, but maybe something can still work out? I would also be open to the idea of something ongoing if anyone travels to or lives in my area.

A little about me, I’m like 5’7ish, dark hair, caucasian, I stay shaved down there. Not necessarily looking to reciprocate so true eater’s ONLY in my DMs lol, but you should know I’ve never had like full sex with a guy before (see my older post, I typically only hook up with women but would love to eventually go further with a dude!)

Will be in the DT area, most likely staying over at a friend’s place, but maybe it can be yours instead… or we could just figure out a quickie and then I leave 😋

Also! My DMs randomly shut off on the mobile app, so please let me know if they aren’t on and I’ll try to fix it quickly!

Edit: Oops looks like my event might be postponed, sorry about that! Still might be up in TO, but probably only looking for someone who is able to travel to KW/in the same region as me.

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u/questioningcircles — 6 days ago

44 F4M #Mississauga

44 BBW F

Looking for someone to talk to about all of the things.

You: 35-53, single, within the GTA.

I want to talk about all the weird alternate reality, parallel universe, different timeline shit.

Maybe after we talk virtually a while we can get together, get stoned, and talk about it face to face.

Not opposed to more coming of it but also not actively looking.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 5 days ago

22 F4A #Distillery District - One Night Stand

here we go again…

well since last time was a pretty good success, and maybe because i’m tipsy right now, i want to be praised and fucked throughly again. i’m going to put the same “what i’m looking for’s” here because i’m lazy and well, it hasn’t changed in 7 days.

LF:
- Tall (I'm 5'5, 5-6 on a good day)
- Clean of course (not just tested but hygienic and smells really good)
- Very sweet and loves to give praise (I am a pillow princess)
- Is a chubby chaser
-Can host
- Oh because this one ruffles some feathers, hung.

i was thinking of just rubbing one out and not posting this but the more i hold back the needier i’ll be for you :3

reminder again, i'm a very weird, awkward black sweet girl.

Edit: it’s 3am right now so i mean i want this happening later today not rn lol

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u/3ngel111 — 6 days ago

23 F4A #GTA #Toronto - need to be touched

left, tried the dating apps, went on a birthday trip, came back a year older, a year wiser, and unfortunately a year hornier. so i’m back here. apparently my problem is that i’m picky as hell, so let’s try this again.

me:
• 5’11, Black, plump, pretty cute
• introverted + awkward
• smoker
• not super experienced
• needs an actual connection to fully let loose

you:
• ideally 20–30, older is okay but 31 is probably my limit (unless your a dilf then please slide my way)
• funny, smart, patient + respectful
• cute
• taller than me is a BIG plus a girl wants to feel like a princess sometimes
• bonus points if you smoke
• actually have a personality please lol

basically i’m horny, picky, awkward, and looking for someone to spend time with (and genuinely enjoy it) and unleash my horniness onto.

if you dm please give me an actual intro!

Sorry I turned my chat on!!🫣

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u/Grow-me — 6 days ago