u/Throw_Upp_And_Away

44F40NB 4M GTA - Looking for a third

We are exploring a Female-Led Relationship with an established Domme/sub dynamic between us, and are looking to slowly and intentionally add a third person who is genuinely aligned with that style of connection.

About us:

We are communicative, emotionally aware, playful, and structured in our dynamic. There is a clear hierarchy between us that is respected and already established. We value honesty, consent, emotional maturity, and consistency.

We are not looking for someone to “act submissive” — we are looking for someone who actually enjoys submission, structure, and being guided within a respectful and clearly defined dynamic.

What we are looking for:

  • 35+
  • Single
  • Clean and respectful
  • Emotionally stable and self-aware
  • Strong understanding of consent and communication
  • Genuine understanding of submission (not just interest in it)
  • Comfortable with hierarchy and FLR dynamics in practice, not just theory
  • Able to communicate boundaries and needs clearly

Important dynamic notes:

  • This is a structured dynamic not fantasy play.
  • We are looking for someone who is comfortable with patience and gradual development rather than instant intensity.
  • Emotional consistency matters more to us than sexual eagerness.
  • We are not interested in anyone looking to bypass boundaries or escalate quickly.

Process:

  • Communication will be via Telegram group chat with both of us present (after screening is done here).
  • We will take time to assess communication, consistency, and compatibility.
  • If appropriate, we will move to a casual coffee meet before anything physical or further is considered.
  • Any in-person activities will take place in appropriate, pre-agreed environments (hotel or lifestyle club setting only).
  • If youve read this and you're going to reply, tell me what an FLR means to you.

Preferences:

  • Bisexual-friendly is a plus
  • Emotional maturity and respect for existing relationship structure is essential

We are not in a rush — we are looking for the right fit, not fast engagement.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 1 day ago

44F40M4M GTA - cuck or fuck

Edited because yall are too entitled

  • Do not message me if you are under the age of 35

  • Do not message me if you think you get to dictate what my partner wears or how they are treated

  • Do not message me if you think this is going to happen today

  • Have some respect and learn to have a real conversation. I know you have a penis, ypu dont need to lead with it.

44F/40M looking for a 3rd to fuck us both or to cuck my partner.

There are pictures on my account.

Please be over 35, respectful, open minded, and kink friendly.

Hoping to get to know somwonw for ongoing adventures and many many orgasms.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 5 days ago

FM4M - cuck or fuck

Edited because yall are too entitled

  • Do not message me if you are under the age of 35

  • Do not message me if you think you get to dictate what my partner wears or how they are treated

  • Do not message me if you think this is going to happen today

  • Have some respect and learn to have a real conversation. I know you have a penis, ypu dont need to lead with it.

We're in our early 40s, clean, fun, and looking to add more fun

Looking to either cuck my partner, or if you're bi you can fuck us both.

Please be over 35.

u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 5 days ago