44 F4F #GTA - these dudes are exhausting

Ladies and theydies,

Rule #1 in this thread gets broken far too frequently and I think its time we stop putting up with the bullshit.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I'm sick to death of receiving messages from men who thought they'd give it a shot and see if I'd skirt my boundaries for them.

If we start giving in to them, they are going to keep behaving poorly.

Send the offenders to the mods. Teach them that we won't put up with it any more.

RESPECT US!!

Here is the rule for those that are unsure.

  1. Follow the Post Requirements

If you do not meet the post requirements, DO NOT message OP.

Disregarding post requirements and shooting your shot is poor etiquette. It makes it harder for right candidates to connect and you rob others of the opportunity by creating unncessary inbox clutter. It is also disrepectful to the time, effort and boundaries OP has set out in their post.

1st offence = 14 day ban

2nd offence = mute

If OP personally reports you for breaking rule 1, you will be banned for 14 days

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 4 days ago

44 F4M #Mississauga

44 BBW F

Looking for someone to talk to about all of the things.

You: 35-53, single, within the GTA.

I want to talk about all the weird alternate reality, parallel universe, different timeline shit.

Maybe after we talk virtually a while we can get together, get stoned, and talk about it face to face.

Not opposed to more coming of it but also not actively looking.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 6 days ago
▲ 32 r/Femdom

loser - part three

Hello. loser.

You've been naughty

You took off your cage

Didn't you

From a common loser

To a naughty

Filthy

Pathetic loser

Couldn't keep your cage on

Disobeyed

Played with that little shrimp dick

Now you must atone

Ready? loser.

You're going to make this right

Ball gag

Butt plug

Punishment cage

The one with the spikes inside

Now

Quickly

Don't make me wait

Well done. loser.

Now

Get me an impact tool

Pick your favorite

You like the flogger

With the nice soft leather

The way it feels on your skin

Too bad. loser.

Get my riding crop

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 16 days ago
▲ 27 r/Femdom

Tonight

You're coming over tonight darling.

Pick a movie for us to watch, you know what I like.

I bought your favorite snack... well, your second favorite snack.

Wear that shirt I like.

And those panties that match.

7:30pm, don't be a minute late.

♡ Mistress

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 18 days ago
▲ 5 r/Femdom

loser - part two

Sit in that corner

Quietly

loser

••

you are not to speak

you are not to move

••

your pathetic clit is caged

your desperate mouth should be gagged

••

Are you ready to watch

While a real man

Makes me moan and quiver

••

Look at his beautiful body

Skin like velvet

Over rippling muscles

••

Look at his beautiful face

Lips and tongue

Ready to devour

••

Prepare yourself

you'll be sitting there a while

loser

••

His main objective

To give me pleasure

••

He starts by undressing me

Taking his time

Like he has never seen my body

••

Touching every curve

Slowly and gently

Like he is committing my form to memory

••

He lays me down on the bed

••

How are you feeling

loser

••

He puts his mouth on my breast

Sucking and biting on my nipple

••

He puts his hand on my pussy

Spreading me to feel my wetness

••

How quickly he makes me forget

That anything exists beyond this bed

••

Can you hear me gasp

loser

••

With a mouth and hands

That only want to make me cum

••

He puts his face between my legs

He wants to taste my essence

••

Licking and sucking

Fingers buried

••

How do I sound

loser

••

His tongue is relentless

Flicking my clit

••

His fingers are skilled

Rubbing my g-spot

••

He loves making me cum

And squirt

••

Are you straining in your cage

loser

••

I need him to fuck me

Stretch my pussy

••

Fuck me slowly and gently

Fuck me rough and deep

••

The sounds escaping my lips

I barely recognize as my own

••

Every nerve in my body

Activated and ready

••

Are you leaking yet

loser

••

Be a good little cuck

Get your Mistress a drink

••

Be a good little sub

Clean up the puddle your Mistress left

••

Come over close to me

Get down on your knees

••

I want you to hear

My ecstacy when I cum

••

Don't touch me

loser

••

Bring your face close to mine

Taste my breath as I pant and moan

••

I can feel Him throbbing

Stretching my pussy wider

••

I should have let him fuck me raw

And made you clean up after him

••

Follow me to the shower

Make yourself useful

••

Wash my body gently

As I come down from this high

••

Such a worthless

pathetic

loser

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 24 days ago
▲ 36 r/Femdom

loser - part one

Do you remember

••

How needy you were

When you were begging me

To call you a loser

••

How pathetic you were

When you were begging me

For punishment

••

I'm ready

••

Lets do this

••

Walk through the door

Take your clothes off

And get in the shower

••

When you're done

you'll find me

On MY bed

••

Don't fucking look at me

loser

••

Put your fucking cage on

I don't want to see that

••

you know where

your face belongs

Do your job

••

you told me

you loved

Sucking on my piercing

••

Don't you dare forget

To slide your fingers

Deep inside me

••

Make me squirt

All over

your pretty face

••

Its your turn

darl . . . loser

••

you're going to count

Loudly

••

Every whap

Landing on your skin

With my pain

••

Every second of anticipation

Laced

With my rage

••

And to further torment

I'm going to stop

When you're on the edge of bliss

••

you need to make me cum again

loser

••

you remembered

To bring the toy

Right?

••

your useless little clit

Is not coming out

Of that cage

••

The toy makes me cum

Harder

Than you ever could

••

you never bottomed out

But the toy

Bruised my cervix

••

That was the best sex

I ever had

With you

••

I'm done with you

loser

••

No

••

you can't shower again

••

Get out

♡ Mistress

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 24 days ago

loser - part one

Do you remember

••

How needy you were

When you were begging me

To call you a loser

••

How pathetic you were

When you were begging me

For punishment

••

I'm ready

••

Lets do this

••

Walk through the door

Take your clothes off

And get in the shower

••

When you're done

you'll find me

On MY bed

••

Don't fucking look at me

loser

••

Put your fucking cage on

I don't want to see that

••

you know where

your face belongs

Do your job

••

you told me

you loved

Sucking on my piercing

••

Don't you dare forget

To slide your fingers

Deep inside me

••

Make me squirt

All over

your pretty face

••

Its your turn

darl . . . loser

••

you're going to count

Loudly

••

Every whap

Landing on your skin

With my pain

••

Every second of anticipation

Laced

With my rage

••

And to further torment

I'm going to stop

When you're on the edge of bliss

••

you need to make me cum again

loser

••

you remembered

To bring the toy

Right?

••

your useless little clit

Is not coming out

Of that cage

••

The toy makes me cum

Harder

Than you ever could

••

you never bottomed out

But the toy

Bruised my cervix

••

That was the best sex

I ever had

With you

••

I'm done with you

loser

••

No

••

you can't shower again

••

Get out

♡ Mistress

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 24 days ago

44 F4M #Mississauga - BBW for ongoing

44, BBW, pic on profile

Looking for 38-48, single, funny, outgoing guy.

Love movies in theater, exploring the city, trying nrw foods, going to a lifestyle club - have you ever been to one?

Honesty and communication are important.

A tongue that can please is essential.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/clubM4

Hung Contest

Date: TBD

I'll be making a Google Doc form for people to fill out for participating.

Limited space available

u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/clubM4

Hung Contest?

Remember that time @ClubM4 had a hung contest and I was a judge?!?

Guess what is happening again!!

Love showing off?

Want to be judged (not harshly unless you request it)?

Date: TBD (before it gets cold, for sure)

Let me know you're interested in participating!

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 2 months ago

44BBWF4M Mississauga - my partner wants me to be fucked

I mean, the title pretty much spells it out.

I'm 44, BBW, trying to get railed so I can tell my partner about it.

If youre over the age of 35 and hung like youre going to lose consciousness when you get hard, send me a message.

This will not happen right away, I need to meet you for a coffee first.

My place is not an option, but if you have an M4 membership or go to Oasis that would work.

Non-negotiables:

- You're over 35

- Condoms are to be used, even for oral

- You must have regular testing

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 3 months ago

44F40NB 4M GTA - Looking for a third

We are exploring a Female-Led Relationship with an established Domme/sub dynamic between us, and are looking to slowly and intentionally add a third person who is genuinely aligned with that style of connection.

About us:

We are communicative, emotionally aware, playful, and structured in our dynamic. There is a clear hierarchy between us that is respected and already established. We value honesty, consent, emotional maturity, and consistency.

We are not looking for someone to “act submissive” — we are looking for someone who actually enjoys submission, structure, and being guided within a respectful and clearly defined dynamic.

What we are looking for:

  • 35+
  • Single
  • Clean and respectful
  • Emotionally stable and self-aware
  • Strong understanding of consent and communication
  • Genuine understanding of submission (not just interest in it)
  • Comfortable with hierarchy and FLR dynamics in practice, not just theory
  • Able to communicate boundaries and needs clearly

Important dynamic notes:

  • This is a structured dynamic not fantasy play.
  • We are looking for someone who is comfortable with patience and gradual development rather than instant intensity.
  • Emotional consistency matters more to us than sexual eagerness.
  • We are not interested in anyone looking to bypass boundaries or escalate quickly.

Process:

  • Communication will be via Telegram group chat with both of us present (after screening is done here).
  • We will take time to assess communication, consistency, and compatibility.
  • If appropriate, we will move to a casual coffee meet before anything physical or further is considered.
  • Any in-person activities will take place in appropriate, pre-agreed environments (hotel or lifestyle club setting only).
  • If youve read this and you're going to reply, tell me what an FLR means to you.

Preferences:

  • Bisexual-friendly is a plus
  • Emotional maturity and respect for existing relationship structure is essential

We are not in a rush — we are looking for the right fit, not fast engagement.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 3 months ago

44F40M4M GTA - cuck or fuck

Edited because yall are too entitled

  • Do not message me if you are under the age of 35

  • Do not message me if you think you get to dictate what my partner wears or how they are treated

  • Do not message me if you think this is going to happen today

  • Have some respect and learn to have a real conversation. I know you have a penis, ypu dont need to lead with it.

44F/40M looking for a 3rd to fuck us both or to cuck my partner.

There are pictures on my account.

Please be over 35, respectful, open minded, and kink friendly.

Hoping to get to know somwonw for ongoing adventures and many many orgasms.

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u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 3 months ago

FM4M - cuck or fuck

Edited because yall are too entitled

  • Do not message me if you are under the age of 35

  • Do not message me if you think you get to dictate what my partner wears or how they are treated

  • Do not message me if you think this is going to happen today

  • Have some respect and learn to have a real conversation. I know you have a penis, ypu dont need to lead with it.

We're in our early 40s, clean, fun, and looking to add more fun

Looking to either cuck my partner, or if you're bi you can fuck us both.

Please be over 35.

u/Throw_Upp_And_Away — 3 months ago