r/Femdom

Not shaming or anything, I love calling him tiny and seeing his dick grow while he blushes.

He doesn’t know why and we were just curious what it means since we have read that some fetishes and kinks are due to specific things, like mommy/daddy kinks to mommy/daddy issues (not always but you get the point).

Anybody know what this could mean?

Or does that wreck the moment?

Recently my wife and I have been watching Merlin, we watched The VVitch (finally), I’ve been reading Wizard of Earthsea, and she read Slewfoot not too long ago. All to say, we’ve had a magical and spooky inclination recently. She especially loves that old religion kind of magic to do with celts and druids shown in Merlin. Less Satan worship and more dark green religion + fairies. So, after the other night when she edged me under candlelight, I began crafting up the idea of making her a spell book.

It’s easy enough to find a witchy notebook and slap some runes/magical letters in there, but I want to go all in. I plan on doing quite a bit of research on how to construct spells and maybe do some of my own world building that makes sense for us. I think I’ll make the spells in old english and try to make them both easy to read and sound sexy if I can. Where I’m really struggling is the actual content. What I have ideas for so far is:

A spell of binding : Used to bind my hands or limbs, etc.

A spell of blinding : She gets nervous sometimes, but it helps when I close my eyes.

A ritual for manifestation with an orgasm as sacrifice or as a vehicle of will out into the world.

A ritual to harvest my sexual energy for her own (edging or ruin, something like that)

I have a few other tinges of ideas but can’t seem to make them feel good in my head. I think a big reason why I’m so stuck is because I’m already so devoted to her, spells around simple requests or devotion seem a little superfluous for us. But I want to spend a long time on this and really work on it to be ready in a few months or so when it’s the middle of fall. I’d like the spells to feel like new tools for her to use if she decides to. Tools to help her feel more confident as my domme and feel powerful.

I’m curious to hear any ideas y’all have for spells, rituals, or bonus content that could be fun to add into the book. It doesn’t even have to be something you think would apply to my wife and I specifically. Any idea is helpful and I just need some starting points. I ultimately want the book to have around 5-10 spells and a few rituals. I plan to make it read like a book of magic that some seductress witch might write. I plan to illustrate it too and use some sort of rune or script, so if your ideas come with an idea for an illumination it gets bonus points.

If it helps, our kinks are: chastity, edging, worship, pegging, light CBT, choking, spit, face sitting, service topping, body jewelry, and now I guess sorcery.