34F4M #Toronto - JOI over a call?

I am working from home today and I can’t focus on my work, I’m too horny!

Looking for a man willing to hop on a Discord call and give me instructions on how to touch myself. No photos, no videos, no names, just some anonymous auditory fun - I’ll thank you and hang up when I’m done 🙃

Might be a long shot, but we never know!

NO SNAPCHAT OR TELEGRAM

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 1 day ago

Thinking of going today

I went Tuesday afternoon and really had fun - I was actually suprised since as a solo woman, it was intimidating! I was thinking of going today as it’s my last day in town but not looking to participate in the pole dancing lesson though.

Would you recommend going this afternoon or tonight?

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 8 days ago

Solo women - how was your experience?

Hey everyone!

I have been to Oasis about 4 years ago as a third for a couple. I am visiting Toronto again in a couple of weeks and I have been tempted to go back, but I’m unsure how it would go as a solo woman (I’m 34 bisexual). I think I’d mostly want to socialize, I’d definitely be open to making out but not sure I’d want more. I’m also plus-size, and while I am confident in my body, I am not sure if that would work for most people?

I could go either Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday night, is there a night that you would recommend?

Would love to get your feedback or advice! :)

Thank you :)

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 1 month ago

34F4M #Downtown - Plus-size woman visiting soon and feeling flirty

Hello :)

As the title says, I will be going on a little getaway in Toronto next month and I’m looking for potential connections that could make my trip even better :)

I am plus-size/bbw - curvy with a tummy and strong thighs and white. I’m active/healthy, flirty and confident and comfortable in my body.

I’m feeling happy and particularly seductive these days and I feel like my trip will be the perfect moment to lean into that energy. I wanna try to pick up a man in a bar (which I have never done!) and I was thinking of going to Oasis, not necessarily to participare in anything - I’m not very kinky - but more to socialize (I went 4 years ago and I liked the vibe with the pool). I would also love to have a date in a bar that ends up in steamy make out that is just slighty inappropriate for a public setting and wondering hands under the table. I love taking my time and I’m looking for someone with the same vibe.

I’m looking for a sensual man (or men) that wants and values a connection even for something casual. Someone who cares about me as a human being and doesn’t see me as human sex toy. Let’s start by having a normal conversation and let sex come up naturally and organically in the conversation. I am a big BIG fan of teasing and feeling the tension building and it’s definitely what I’m looking for!

Other criterias :
- Be clean and know that condoms are a non-negotiable for me
- No cheaters
- Ideally able to host, ideally in the downtown area
- Respectful and consent forward
- NO low-effort chats : “hey” messages will be ignored, the ones with pet names like “hun” and “baby” will be too
- No snapchat or telegram users

NO UNSOLICITED DICK PICS PLEASE

Thank you and have a nice day 🤗

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 1 month ago

34 F4M - BBW interested in experimenting a specific scenario

Hello everyone!

First, as the title mentions, I’m a bbw/plus-size/fat woman.
If that’s not for you, that’s okay, I just want to be straightforward.

I am not someone who enjoys power dynamics, but lately, I’ve been daydreaming about a certain specific scenario:
I would like to have a man tied up and blindfolded and be able to sensually tease him. Dim lighting (candles?), soft music on, I would use my nails, ice, mouth, massage oil, stuff like that and really take my time. Hopefully, this would culminate in slow and sensual sex.
To be clear : I’m not looking for impact play or anything rough. I would not want to be tied up or blindfolded back.

Important : I am looking for someone who can host at his place! No hotel, car, airbnb, motel encounters.
I will want to go out for drinks/dinner/a bite first. (Will pay my own bill, not here for a free meal) Chemistry and connection are very important to me.

Penis size doesn’t matter to me, please do not mention it or send unsolicited dick pics.

I am not looking to rush anything. I am looking to have a normal conversation first, get to know each other to feel comfortable with one another. I would love for this to be ongoing.

Looking forward to chatting with you :)

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 2 months ago

34 F4M Success story (!)

This is just to give a little hope to my fellow women - while I didn’t think it was possible, I got to meet with a great guy from here yesterday after over a year of posting in this community!

We went for a drink, I had no expectations at all and we ended up going back to his place and had a really great time in my opinion! He was respectful, attentive and honestly very hot!

So here’s to hoping that won’t be my only positive experience!

Good encounters to all 😌

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 3 months ago
▲ 31 r/BBW

Im feeling good after my first boudoir photoshoot 🤭

Was traveling and had a nice hotel room - thought I’d book a photographer to try out a boudoir shoot! I had heard they were good for self-esteem, but didn’t think I’d like the result so much!

u/Adept-Day9461 — 3 months ago

34 F4M - BBW seeking seduction and passion

I am craving a fun night out where we go for drinks and get to know each other, we chat, we laught and get progressively more flirty and touchy. You ask if I wanna go back to your place and we have a couple hours of highly sensual fun - you know how to tease, and you enjoy taking your time and going slow.

No doms or subs/ no power dynamics please.
Safe sex only.

Me : white, plus-size (tummy, double chin, thick thighs, ass and tits), green eyes, brown hair. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week, love to cook or grab a bite somewhere. I am a big hockey and american football fan!
I cannot host.

You : are a man between the ages of 28 and 40, respectful, emotionally intelligent, mature. You can host at your place (no hotels/motels/airbnb/car sex) and ideally have no pets as I am allergic. You know how to have a conversation that isn’t about sex. You are SINGLE.

I am not looking for low-effort connections. Would love this to turn into a FWB thing if we vibe.

Don’t message me with “hi” or “hey”. Introduce yourself and tell me what made you want to contact me.
Do NOT mention your penis size/bbc/bwc - it will turn me off. No unsolicited nudes/dick pics please.
No Snapchat or Telegram.

Looking forward to chatting with you :)
Je parle aussi français.

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u/Adept-Day9461 — 4 months ago