r/OasisAquaLoungeTo

Solo female thinking about visiting…

NOTE: Do not DM if you’re a man interested in going with me. I will not answer.

So I’m a single female thinking about going for the first time (20s, female, south asian ethnicity).

I’m pretty conventionally attractive, and I generally have an easy time meeting/dating men, but I’m curious about this environment. I’ve had a few sexual partners, but have never orgasmed during sex without a toy.

I’d only want to be sexually active with people who I find attractive and who are good about consent and pleasuring women. I’d be open to being with 2 men at once, but it seems thats hard to do (I don’t want to go on a night where theres mostly men, and not super into being with an established male-female couple).

However, I’m really nervous about men following me/being assaulted/being filmed/general hygiene. I also really do not like modern porn- I’m not interested in anything that feels violent/degrading. I just want safe, respectful exploration.

I have some questions:

  1. Whats it like going as a single woman / single woman of colour?
  2. Whats the best time and day to go for me?
  3. I’ve heard the pool water is unclean. Is this true?
  4. Whats are you general thoughts about the preamble I put above?
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u/mayaalisha — 19 hours ago

MF4MF - looking for a couple to plan a date at oasis

Just a bucket list for us. We are early 30's professional couple - super into fitness, love to travel, and discussing personal finance.

If you want to join us please share some info about you with sfw pics and we can plan a date at oasis :) tell us your age, ethnicity, what you do for work and what got
you interested in us!

u/Pauljohncen — 1 day ago
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MF4MF or F

Hi!

28M 26F couple with experience, looking for other couples or single female to play with!
Can’t host but willing to travel or meet up at Oasis

Feel free to reach reach but be ready to verify with pics

No Indian couples please.

u/IndustryAcceptable97 — 2 days ago

MF4F or MF Sept 26

Hey! We're a 39yr old couple, pretty new to the lifestyle making our 2nd trip to Oasis for the next unicorn night!

We were hoping to connect with a unicorn or another couple before hand. Chat, get to know each other, and meet up that night.

u/Own-Barnacle-298 — 1 day ago

Thank u Oasis

Last night was my first sapphic night and had the greatest time. You all are so amazing and hot 🥵

u/goodbad-elf — 3 days ago

Sweetest, insatiable Veronica looking forward to an early Bukkake show tonight 💋💋

See you all there 💋🍆💦💦❤️

u/insatiablecpl — 3 days ago

Who's heading to oasis tonight? Couples? F? Stop and read before DM!

Im trans post op! Im 40 and fit.

Doesnt bother you? Good.

Yesterday was amazing at sapphic night, first fantasy fulfilled. Now for my second one!

Im likely going to kneel/sit for bukkake drops tonight's event. Not exactly sure how I will decide to do it.

After the clean up, looking for FF or MF couples that are nice and fit. Or solo F

u/Princess_Flow — 3 days ago

Aug 30th - M29, F25 coming from out of town

Our first time attending a club of the sorts - would love to chat with some people and make friends. We do have some questions if anyone is able to answer:

  1. Is the area around Oasis safe? I’ve read about downtown TO a lot and just want to make sure.

  2. What is the age group like? We aren’t judgemental or picky, just want to know the vibe of how things go.

  3. Does Oasis supply condoms or is this a bring your own type of deal?

u/Dr_Squeakz — 4 days ago

Went to oasis last night, coming back Thursday xoxo

Honestly had fun just socializing and vibing

To the hot couple in there’s 40’s that I chatted with most of the night… if you see this I must confess I found you both sexy as hell - sorry I got quite and shy. by the time I worked up the confidence to say a compliment to wifey another unicorn came and started talking to you both. Before I left I said goodbye tho!

See you all next time :)

u/CheekySideQuest — 5 days ago
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Hot couple heading to Oasis tonight 👀 for a 🦄

Check out our page for more pics and vids 😏😈

u/DaddyandBG11 — 6 days ago

Going to Oasis as a solo woman - need suggestions

So it’s my first time going to oasis as a solo woman and I’m kinda nervous and excited at the same time. Who’s going tonight?

To clarify, I’ve been to oasis before but with my female friend. But this is the first time I’m going just by myself.

Women who’ve gone there by yourselves, I love how confident and comfortable you are and i aspire to be like that. Anything I should know of?

Edit: changed my mind to go tomorrow for the unicorn night 🦄 hoping to see a lot more couples :)

Single men, please don’t DM me. I am not going in as a couple with you and I’m only looking for couples so please don’t message.

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u/Midly-Annoying — 7 days ago
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33M and 21 FTM looking for couples or solo bi/gay men

We are a 33M and 21 FTM looking for thirds or couples, into lots of different dynamics. We’d mostly be looking to meet at Oasis on June 21st, but we’re always open to fun stuff outside of that! We usually go with a little group (mix of trans and cis friends) so it’s a very social affair.

We are looking for hot bi/gay men to join us for a threesome. Ideally bottom/verse but we aren’t super picky that way. Also down for couples. If you’re a MF couple we ask that the male as bi or curious. We host in Guelph or we can travel. We’re probably not going to answer if you’re over 45 years old

Definitely definitely not interested in “straight” guys who don’t see trans men as men. Happy to chat with guys who are exploring their sexuality but let’s all be cool, yeah?

We will happily send some pics once we connect! Usually like to verify on Snapchat or over text rather than reddit chat. Please send some info to us in the DMs and we’ll connect if it feels good! Don’t just send “hey”- introduce yourself!

I have a few videos on my profile from previous hookups- none of these people are in the picture so please don’t ask if they’re available haha!

Anyway! If you want to chat- hit us up! We have lots of experience in group play! :) we’re thinking our first hangout will be at the swordplay night at Oasis on June 21st! Never ever looking for “right now”

u/buntingboy — 5 days ago

Next visit will be September 5

Haven't been to a Blinded by Lust night before so we're intrigued by the idea. Looking forward to spending a long weekend by the pool with everyone. If you recognise us, would love to chat!

u/CuriousCoupleOshawa — 6 days ago