Solo female thinking about visiting…
NOTE: Do not DM if you’re a man interested in going with me. I will not answer.
So I’m a single female thinking about going for the first time (20s, female, south asian ethnicity).
I’m pretty conventionally attractive, and I generally have an easy time meeting/dating men, but I’m curious about this environment. I’ve had a few sexual partners, but have never orgasmed during sex without a toy.
I’d only want to be sexually active with people who I find attractive and who are good about consent and pleasuring women. I’d be open to being with 2 men at once, but it seems thats hard to do (I don’t want to go on a night where theres mostly men, and not super into being with an established male-female couple).
However, I’m really nervous about men following me/being assaulted/being filmed/general hygiene. I also really do not like modern porn- I’m not interested in anything that feels violent/degrading. I just want safe, respectful exploration.
I have some questions:
- Whats it like going as a single woman / single woman of colour?
- Whats the best time and day to go for me?
- I’ve heard the pool water is unclean. Is this true?
- Whats are you general thoughts about the preamble I put above?