u/BerryLife4981

I need a dildo that has a base so I can grind on it. I don’t have a partner and am not looking for one bc I haven’t had a fulfilling sexual experience in idk how long. Right now i just have a standard 6 inch dildo and it works but I want something that has a base so I can grind on it, vibration settings would be fun too. I’m looking at grinder dildos but is that more for lesbians so the person doing the thrusting has pleasure?? Help I’m confuseddddd and as a 29 year old woman I want to invest in something good. It’s time lol