Failed 1st Time

About a year and a half ago I brought up the idea of Hotwifing to my wife and to my suprise , even though I was so hesitant to ask she told me if thats what I would like she was down and that I just had to explain it to her. A couple weeks went by of looking for a male and no one at the time was her cup of tea. We ended up settling on a couple who were very attractive and chatted for a bit and then we drove to them and hooked up. Where I fucked up was thinking it would be fine to do seperate rooms for the first time , I had a fucking blast with his wife and then we came together in one room taking turns with eachothers wifes doing all sorts of Insanely hot shit my wife was even sucking us both off.. after all this we wrapped up and hugged then bye, we blasted music all the way home and were talking about all the details and getting super horny on the way home.. we got home and my wife started crying she said she hated me and all this other stuff .. in a couple days she cooled off and in about 2 weeks she brought it up again and just wanted to make sure we did the same room and took it slower .. we looked for a couple and couldnt find another one .. we recently moved to MO and i brought it up again and she told me I could hook up with other people but she wasnt really interested and thats just not what I want , I want her to hotwife or us to swap partners … recently we we having sex and watching MFM porn and Wife swap porn and she was super horny..

someone with experience please give me some advice on how to bring this back up again or convince my wife to be involved

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u/Best-Scale-6442 — 2 months ago