A woman naturally turns a man on - then.....
He behaves like a "gentleman."
Think into it logically. At an elaborate event the ladies present themselves at their best. The men behave themselves - why ? because they feel surrounded by pussy and they hope to get lucky.
If the women showed up in dirty old sweat pants, with messy hair and nothing to show, bar fights would almost be guaranteed.
Could it be that simple ?
Women are the moderators when they turn a man on.
What does a man want - to see her naked is often enough - turning him on does not mean sex - it means he's fired up, focused. Some frilly underwear (and what have you) can always help, but naked is good enough.
Instead of the nag, whine, complain, pressure, stress, hassle etc and the grind of (no sex) life - all he needs is naked....naked.
It goes further than that - and gets easier.
He takes his dick out 3-4 times a day to pee..... He's not going to say no if you ask him to get it out.
Is the wife less meaningful than urination ? That's a troublesome piece of math.
How long before he becomes accustomed to her taking it out for him - or she orders him to drop his pants time to time. Not even one day.
Nothing has to happen does it. Just make sure he's turned on. You wouldn't get in the car and expect to get anywhere without it turned on - WTF are you expecting in an LTR other stagnant misery ?
Take it from there. He has a joystick - what is it for ? Direction ? Moderation.
If you had a dog or even a cat - you'd expect to feed it and pet it daily wouldn't you. How much work is it - barely more than daily urination apparently. He doesn't need fancy meals, he needs his dick stroked - that's alot easier than an hour in the kitchen playing master chef.
And yet here we are.
Interesting how the rationalisation unfolds.
You don't even have to get naked ladies. You got him by the balls within 24 hours.
Now what ?
A whole range of possibilities unfold.
First thing - you don't want to be turning him on and him creeping off to masturbate - so that's where the cage comes in.
How many days of dropping his pants and stroking him a little, 3-4 times a day - less than you probably pet a cat - before he agrees to wear a cage. Maybe 2 or 3 ?
Could it be that simple ?
What next ?
Learn "edging" (look it up). Not rocket science - a call girl probably learns it in a weekend. Is the average wife more stupid than a call girl - ops that's a troubling piece of math.
You haven't even taken your clothes off yet
Could it be that simple ?
Once he's in a cage you can really ramp it up. All the cuddles and rubs you wish for, all you have to do is cup his balls a little now.
Collaring and training a puppy is more complicated and yet here we are....
What next ?
Your satisfaction - the more overtly sexual you are - the more he'll appreciate it. Naked - daily shower - he can watch. Topless in the kitchen -that's OK he's locked.
In the mood - touch yourself, he can watch.
It's not that difficult is it - ladies and gentleman.