I’m Currently single but when I was married for 9 years then a gf for 4 years after divorce. Regardless of how much I got laid I masturbate daily. My previous gf didn’t like it. This is when she discovered chastity we didn’t us it enough to make an impact.
But has this helped you with bad habits? How long did it take ? Where you self locked or did you have a key holder?
My wife says wear the KINK so I make it through security, and there is no chance I am going unlocked for the entire weekend. Any advice? Think I will make it?
I’m locked back in my Jailbird and coming across a challenge with securing the emergency key.
When we used barrel lock devices my emergency key was kept in a Kink3d key sleeve with serialized lock to keep me honest.
The MM security screw key is a cylinder and I’m having a hard time finding a way to secure it and be able to keep it with me for emergencies, so I’m on the honor system now and I don’t like it lol.
So I've dabbled in chastity for about 10 years, starting with self locking, and was never able to find a well fitting, comfortable cage.
My now wife had some interest when i told her about my chastity kink but was never totally sold on the idea of chastity (we are by no means vanilla, pegging, bdsm, etc.) and was very concerned about health, pain, and injury.
About a month ago I told my wife about my porn addiction, and that I had purchased a new cage with the intent of breaking my habbit, she was more onboard, and not happy about me watching porn as I had told her I would stop when we got married.
The new cage is perfect, i've always struggled because i am uncircumsised, but even with a little turtleneck poking out it's unnoticable or bearable at the worst.
I was locked solid for three days, bar daily wash, then i had a break for a day, and now i've been locked for six.
To my surprised this morning I was woken up by a wet dream, I told my wife and she ordered me to have sex with her, and started dirty talking about me being locked 24/7 unless she wanted to use my cock. I told her I wanted to start having sex using a strap on so I could stay caged, she agreed.
Now she has just messaged me saying she wants to make a dildo mould out of my penis so she can have both my cock and keep me locked, in the exitement I sent her the link to
https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction
And she's totally on board.. this could be it!
i started chastity few year back. what i remember is at first i just curious after seeing people wearing a chastity on reddit. then curiosity turn into interest. and that interest make me bought my own first cage.
In the beginning i wore a cage because to avoid myself jerking off. also to make myself horny all day. ( that what people said). but i realize, over time it also my body more sensitive. especially nipple and my hole. its must be effect of no orgasm. 😅😋
what surprised me is it also effect my mind. its make me always thinking of the feeling of cage in my crotch. its like it remind me that i'm a pathetic boy who locked up my dick whenever i doing. even doing normal thing such as working, there constant reminder in my head to tell me that i'm locked. it keeps me horny and in sub mind all the time.
after a few year wearing cage, i honestly dont feel like a need a reason anymore. haha. ☺️ just wearing it just because i loved it. love the feeling of being locked up, loved going long time without jerking off, self orgasm.
but the funny thing is, usually after a few month wearing a cage 24/7, i suddently lose my interest in it anymore. and i'll just unlock it, stop wearing a cage and move on until like normal men. a few month later, the urge came back out of nowhere and i end up buying and wearing cage again. starting the cycle over again.
im i normal? have Anyone experience the same thing? 😅
I'm in my thirties, and I came to chastity through an interest in prostate play. Thanks to a conversation with artificial intelligence, I tried a chastity cage to enhance prostate awareness. The brain really does redistribute signals when the penis is "unavailable."
The first attempt was unsuccessful because the ring was too tight, my scrotum got pinched, but everything turned out fine. I stopped wearing it for a while, but later, in April, I found the Cellmate Nero — a mini-flat with multiple rings. This was my third CC. and the first one to fit perfectly right away. From that moment on, I started wearing the mini-flat 24/7.
The effect was incredible: during the adjustment period to the minification, I felt super-aroused. After a week, while using a little poppers and watching PMV, I started rubbing my scrotum. I was literally hit by a series of 30–40 consecutive dry orgasms — wave after wave, no pain, pure pleasure. I couldn't replicate it again, probably a first-time adjustment phenomenon.
Later, when prostate awareness became more pronounced, I simply pressed on my perineum and experienced my first prostate orgasm — a wave of heat and pleasure rose from bottom to top, pure euphoria. The second prostate orgasm happened recently, after quitting daily masturbation allowed my pelvic floor muscles to relax properly. Now I can easily take a sizable dildo without any warm-up.
Over time, I noticed that my genitals now look neater and more harmonious, which I truly appreciate. My personality changed too: the women I interact with have noticed that I've become more attentive, sensitive, and kind. The old explosive "toxic masculinity" is gone. Now I understand what this term is all about, I feel harmony and inner order that had been missing and craving for a long time.
I've learned how crucial hygiene is for long-term wear, so I take breaks and rotate my cages—besides the mini-flat, I use the Guardian 0 (very similar to Kink3d Cobra Nub), and at night I switch to a looser cage for better circulation and as a sort of "reward" in the morning when I go back to the mini-flat.
I used to live very reclusively: I don't suffer from excessive weight or appearance issues, but I saw no point in personal relationships. After two and a half weeks of constant chastity wear, I found a girlfriend. Quite the plot twist.
The moral — a device that seemed like just a way to edge has actually become my guide to harmony, inner change, and even personal happiness. I never thought a toy from a sex shop could have such potential to change life for the better. Through restrictions to freedom and peace. I hope my story proves useful or motivating to someone. Questions are welcome.
Hey everybody. This is my first post after reading this subreddit for quite a while.
I´m 33m, and a long time I was drawn to that whole Chastity thing. I bought some cheap cages over time but none of them fitted me properly because i´m on the larger side. So i was drawn to that whole thing but couldnt really try it out.
Over a year ago I started 3D printing and modeling. And now I had the posibillity to design a cage that fitted me properly. And after couple of designs I had a pretty good fitting cage.
So I started wearing it regularly. Not at work or while sleeping but very consistently when i´m at home.
My break in periode was a whole month with no full O. Every Sunday in that time I edged three time and after that I ruined my O. After almost five weeks I granted me a full O and it was amazing. I was really proud of myself after yerking of once a day minimum the past years. That ruined O was really helpful for me to not go crazy in that time. It helped doing something sexual even if its not pleasurable. And the crazy part for me was, when I porperly ruined it I was satisfied to hit the right moment to stop and be strong enough to stop. This satisfaction of denying myself was mindblowing for me.
After that, i´m now on a two weeks schedule. The first Sunday i edge three times und ruin my O. The second Sunday i edge three times and grant me a full one.
So what are your toughts of my progression? Should I stay with this schedule or do something else?
My other question is. Are you satisfied as well after ruining your O properly?
Sorry for the long post and my spelling.
Caged greetings
Essentially, the pee hole has a spiral which is used to attach a sounding device. I won’t be wearing the sounding device and I noticed that said spiral was scraping the skin around my urethra. What should I do?
How does morning wood work? How uncomfortable is it?
Why did everyone here start locking up or why did you ask your SO about it? Was it actually about the aspect of denial/femdom, or did you just specifically have a chastity kink? Or was it for something completely different?
I posted a bit ago asking how everyone asked about it, but I think another one of my big hold ups on talking to my wife about it is that I don't really know why I wanna, or if it's a good enough reason.
Part of me thinks that I just like the idea of her locking me short term for date nights, but at the same time I don't really know if I would actually enjoy the repeated denial aspect of longer term locks too. I've spent basically my entire life with very little impulse control around masturbating so I don't even really know what it's like to be without for more than a couple days.
I want to start by saying I'm not new to this, I've been doing it on and off for about 9 years but there's a couple things that I've always accepted as normal and I want to know if others experience it too
First, does anyone else have trouble emptying their bladder? It seems like after only a day or two of chastity I am needing to pee way more often. It's like I can never get completely empty.
Second, what can I do about the aching? Some aching is to be expected, even desired, but sometimes its so severe that it causes me a stomach ache. It gets to the point where I'm sometimes tempted to unlock and have an orgasm just to relieve some of the pressure.
Thanks for any insight or advice guys
I’m wearing my cage outside the bedroom for the first time working on a project in the garage. Most of the time I’m able to forget about it, but squatting and lifting things reminds me because my balls are squished out wide.
Will I get used to moving differently?
Should it fit differently?
It’s just a cheap Amazon cage
Been wearing my kink3d Baby Cobra 5 days out of 7. Up to 4 days non stop inc overnight.
Wife and I want to remove the option of pullout so Sunday for the PA piercing. Have already ordered the PA padlocks.
Anyone gone this route already? What should i expect? Will it be a few days out of the cage while i heal?
So I’ve been caged for 3 days still very new can I was walking around my house, and saw a object that immediately made me think how it would feel, I’m also new to anal so idk if I should try, for context it’s a smooth wooden object
The first attempt last week for roughly 4-5 days and night resulted in abit of chaffing and broken skin on the behind the balls with cherry keeper. Believe it came about from night time erections as I don't notice it being on during the day.
Since then I have sanded down my ck ring to a 1200grit finish to help the above as the default process finished wasn't smooth and I believe it didn't help the chaffing.
Apart from adding a lubricant to the base of the ring is there any advice? Or is it something that you get used to over time (skin toughens up).
I would really like a solution as I would like to go longer in it as the wife is really enjoying me in it and mentioned I'm better caged.
A couple of weeks ago I bought a transparent acrylic cage, my cock barely fit (5 inch soft) I liked it but I always felt that I had it on, today I got my first flat cage and I must accept that it is wonderful, I don’t feel that I have cock and I love it, but when I start to get hard (9inch fully hard) the cage really doesn’t work since it makes me a giant pube bulge only lol without the head uncovered, I don’t know what to do, should I wear a belt too? Help!
I’m still quite hesitant on trying chastity because it seems a bit sketchy to me and uncomfortable for a grower. So I’ll ask a few questions for if I do decide to try it out.
Measurements: TBD
Based on these measurements, which cage would you recommend on amazon? Ideally, I’d like to not spend too much and not get a metal one.
How exactly do I put it on?
Any tips, advice, or guidance for using chastity as a grower?
What risks am I facing if I do try chastity?
So I loveee my metal flat cages from Amazon and fit into them well. However, I’m wondering if there is anything smaller? Like are there cages that are inverted? When I search for these on Amazon, the products recommended don’t make sense to me. Can anyone recommend something?
I want a chastity cage but I also don't want to shrink, I like my 7 inches and so does my partners. I wouldn't mind locking up to bottom or just something to wear.
I wonder if i should get a new one. 3 inch seemed okay for a flaccid dick, but however you sit and turn, your dick isnt always the sane size. I am actually wondering how small it should be to be correct