mainstream/ non-domme articles on chastity
I'm looking for guides and articles that explain chastity but in a more mainstream/ non-domme way.
For example I've seen "Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders" by Lucy Fairbourne. While it's a great work, it emphasizes all the great ways a woman can control her man.
I looked at "Chastity: A Guide for Vanilla Wives" by Milyssa Morrisette and it seemed closer, but even the front cover has a woman with a stick, looking domme.
the "Secret to a Happy Marriage" by ella, is a bit better. But it focuses on chastity as a way to stop masturbation.
I saw a "Men's Health" article on it once (didn't get a chance to read it), but I'm looking for more of a view of why men want this that is more mainstream -- ie, about sexual play and experimenting and helping guys stay aroused and feel turned on without actual sex or even foreplay.
Anyone have any thoughts on where to find something like that?