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But that's not my only question. First of all, every time I try to put it on, I end up getting hard. How can I manage to do that? I even tried taking a cold shower, but nothing helps... and I'd like to take it slowly, but my girlfriend wants me to try sleeping with it on. She's researched the subject more than I have and says she's "training me," but even she doesn't know what it would be like to sleep wearing it.

I'm going to start using a chastity cage and I made a post about it here, and someone told me in the comments that it might not cause penis shrinkage, but it can cause premature ejaculation. Is that permanent? And is it serious? Because if that's what happens and leaves me like this forever, I don't know if my girlfriend and I will agree to it. I'm only 23 years old, I don't know if having premature ejaculation FOREVER at this age would be a good thing. Or would it?

I know, it seems like a silly question, but here on Reddit I've found people saying yes, and others saying no, so I really don't know. Let me give you some context: I'm going to start using a chastity cage at my girlfriend's request. I'm 23 years old and she asked if it wouldn't shrink, especially since we bought a small cage, and that actually worried me because I like the size I have. I searched online and it seems that yes, the size does decrease, but I also saw people saying it doesn't. So, will it shrink or not? I'll start using it for a few hours, but my girlfriend's goal is for me to use it for a whole month until the end of the year. If I use it for a whole month, will it shrink? And what if in the future I end up using it for 1 or 2 years? Is that really a possibility, or am I just believing crazy internet theories?

Also, thank you all so much, this subreddit has been helping me a lot to get into this lifestyle. My girlfriend and I are in our early 20s and we believe that all of this will be really great in the end.

I'm 23 years old and my girlfriend and I decided to get into this lifestyle. I bought the cage and I'm waiting for it to arrive. She chose it herself, and I'll start with a small pink one. However, I'm anxious because I hadn't stopped to think that I'll have to leave the house wearing it. I thought about talking to her and not wearing it when we go out, but I think that could spoil part of the fun. My biggest fear is someone noticing I'm wearing it, even though the cage is small (sizes 1 to 5 are size 2). Any advice on leaving the house wearing a chastity cage?

My girlfriend (22) and I (23) got into this this week and I bought a cage. I'm waiting for it to arrive, but out of 5 sizes to choose from, '1' being the smallest and '5' the largest, I bought size '2'. My "friend" is quite flexible and I don't think I'll have many problems, but the cage hasn't arrived yet and I've gotten a little anxious thinking about it. Has anyone else started with a smaller one? Should I buy a bigger one?