u/manly_physique

So already hard to put the cage on when I’m really hard. But, when I finally get it on, it starts to push off with my boner. And won’t keep my dick compressed.

So I just bought a we vibe prostate massager and thought it would be awesome. First off I get home after buying all this stuff, I clear my bowels and then try the douche and already off to a bad start I guess I just suck at it

Then I clean the toy wash it out it in and it just feels like I’m sitting on a phone while someone is trying to call me. Honestly… disappointed, so sad

So I was curious and bought a dildo as a guy because why not. And I tried it a few times in the past day and I honestly thought it was going to go better. But just not as fun as it seemed and ontop of that just worried about my health using a toy. Scared or pitting things up my ass now after reading things online.

So I have really wanted to try anal toys and go shopping at my local store but not sure what’s even safe to put in my body
I would like a plug and a small dildo but I’m unsure what’s safe for either of those

I see anal dildos and regular dildos that. I don’t understand the difference and again about what’s safe to put in me.