u/BezzaBlue234

I'm currently in the talking/vetting stage with a potential Dom. I quickly realised that he's not very experienced in the lifestyle. He's only had one D/s dynamic before this. I'm kind of stumped on what sort of questions to ask him. Most of my usual vetting questions don't really apply here because he's not very experienced. What are some vetting questions I can ask for someone that is fairly new to the lifestyle?

Does anybody know if you unfollow someone on FetLife does it notify them? I feel bad for doing it but there's a few accounts that I've followed that I now kind of regret. It's nothing against them, I just don't really like the stuff that they post even after initially reading through their profile.