Before I start, I would like to say that the following content was originally written by me, but I used AI to polish it and ensure it said everything how I intended it to be said as I’m not a native English speaker.
Hey everyone,
I’m an incoming first-year student at a university in Illinois, and I wanted to make a post that goes a little deeper than the usual “how do I wear diapers in college?” questions.
I’m looking for honest advice from people who have actually gone through college as ABDL — especially while living in dorms or sharing space with roommates.
I want to have a great college experience while also staying true to myself, so I’d appreciate advice on things like:
• How do you manage diapers discreetly in a dorm setting?
• What’s the best way to store supplies without drawing attention?
• How do you handle laundry, trash, or changing when you share a bathroom or room?
• Did you tell your roommate, or keep it private? If private, how did you make it work?
• How do you balance ABDL interests with normal college life, classes, socializing, and independence?
• Are there good ways to meet other ABDL people safely in college or nearby?
• Since my university is about an hour from Chicago, are there any communities, events, or ways to connect with like-minded people in the area?
• How do you avoid feeling isolated if you keep this side of yourself private?
I’m not trying to make college only about ABDL — I want the full college experience: friends, fun, independence, and growth. But I’d also like to know how others handled this part of themselves while living on campus.
If you’ve been in a similar situation, I’d really appreciate hearing what worked, what didn’t, and what you wish you knew before starting college.
Thanks!