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Unpopular opinion: monogamy isn't "natural". it's a choice, and treating it like a moral default is why so many relationships quietly fall apart.
I coach couples and singles on intimacy for a living, and here's the take that gets me the most hate mail.
We're taught monogamy is the "correct" way to love someone, and anything else is broken or immature. But biology doesn't back that up, and neither does history. What actually matters isn't the structure it's the honesty inside it.
Cheating isn't wrong because someone wanted more. It's wrong because they lied.
Fight me in the comments. 😏
u/Big-Show-3214 — 6 days ago