u/Bigsub99

I've been a paypig for almost 2 years now. Sent about $6,000 overall. I know that's not a lot over the course of 2 years, but I haven't always been in a dynamic.

I've never had "fincuck" dynamic before. IDK. Normally I just sent to single women, and I enjoyed the dynamic funding her life. Some of them (probably) went out and found random guys to bang, or if they had a boyfriend it was one of those things where he was like an after thought/ irrelevant to the conversation or dynamic that we had. He didn't exist. One problem I ran into is that I started imagining these women in roles that were inappropriate for the dynamic, I.e. us getting married or whatever else. Something I don't really have an interest in.

I don't know how to describe it but I've been thinking of trying this. Maybe a "fincuck" dynamic would work better so I know that would never be a problem for me? If it's clear she's in a relationship and tells me about it. Maybe complains about him to me like a guy simp orbiter would and that's that? I don't know. Or if he isn't fulfilling 100% of your financial needs I can come in and fill a portion?

About me. Around the age of 30, forever single white male, virgin. Looking for a woman this age or a little younger..... but preferably no one younger than mid 20s. Maybe I'd consider going early 20s for the right person but not beyond that. NO FACELESS GIRLS. I need to be attracted or I won't get any enjoyment out of this.

Reach out if interested in exploring with me.

For this exercise, assume that every guy is single, no wife/girlfriend, or dependents. All are "debt free" and roughly the same age and have the same body types and all talk to you the same amount of time.

1. A guy working some BS job like a factory or construction making less than $50K/year He lives in a small one bedroom/one bathroom house. His union has a pension plan for him so long as he works he'll get to retire one day. After his mortgage and essential bills...... electric, internet, etc. he's left with $250/week in discretionary spending. He gives you $125/month and keeps $125/himself for his food, gas, and entertainment. He eats cheaper food so he can afford to send to you. He does side jobs like grass cutting when he needs money for car repairs or whatever so you'll always get the $125/week from him and sometimes he'll give you a little money from the side jobs. It's enough to cover some bills like a night out.

This guy doesn't spend a lot of money, but he makes a HUGE sacrifice in his day-day life for you.

2. A relatively wealthy man. Think of a lawyer or a business executive. The type of guy making well over $500K/year after taxes. Someone millions in the stock market. He'll have a nice house already paid off with a swimming pool, several rental properties generating additional revenue, and a beach house for vacations. He sends you $2K/week every week no questions asked. Never more when you want more, but never less. The $2K/week means nothing to him. He could send to $4-5K each week without it impacting his life at all but doesn't he just keeps the rest for himself. He sends you $2K and just loves seeing you when he's happy. Enough so you don't need to work or take on other subs/worry about guys disrespecting you.

This guy sends you A LOT of money, but makes no sacrifice whatsoever.

3. Middle ground. Think of a guy in a normal suburban 3-4 bedroom 2-3 bathroom house. Makes over $100K/year, brings home a little over $80K. This guy is very budget oriented. Has all of these calculations with how much he can send. He has these calculations where after his "essential bills" he has like $45K/year left. He has a savings program to put X amount in the stock market + his HYSA each year, how much he's gonna spend on vacation, etc. and he sends you like $300-$350/week

This guy sends a decent amount of money. It's basically enough to cover your rent. He makes some sacrifices. He could live in a bigger house, take longer vacations, or retire early but he chooses to send to you instead, while he still maintains a good life for himself.

Which would you prefer of the three? The high sending wealthy sub who doesn't sacrifice, the low sending poor sub who sacrifices a bunch, or the middle of the road sub who sends some.

I've observed one thing from talking to dommes on here about different things. All the best, most talented ones have issues with a guy from the past.

Dommes can generally be put into 4 categories:

1. The lifestyle dommes. Those who have been doing this for many years. Maybe they weren't sure what they wanted to do in life. Maybe they experimented with different things and found that putting on an outfit was the most profitable.

(I've never sent to one like this.)

2. The E-beggers. This is, sadly, the majority of girls on reddit these days. Just begging for money like a man holding a sign on the highway. Not providing any reason for a guy to simp over them or send them money, just there.

3. There are the girls who are naturally bratty/spoiled/like being in control. What Paypigsneedvanilla used to be like. Finding a super hot girl who always had beta males/simps no matter what and got men to do things for her and now makes a living/officially embraces it.

(This used to be my favorite, but no longer.)

4. The last group. Dommes who dated a useless man or useless men at many points in their life. Maybe they got sick of a guy who wanted to split the bills 50/50 or constantly having to remind him to get a job, or in some cases these girls paying it themselves. "Hey, have any of those places called you back? I know my friend's husband works at fedex and can get you on."

They've experienced the "other side" of male/female relationships and just had enough of them/want something different. This is unlike the naturally bratty girls who grew up always getting what they wanted. This is unlike the lifestyle ones who learned this. They've got sick of guys not working and leaching off them and basically said "Enough!" And found us paypigs here. They don't necessarily want to find a rich man who wants some 1950s type marriage either where the man was in control. They want a place where they have some of the benefits of modern relationships (women having power) without the obligation (women splitting bills.) Girls like this are the best.

(I've learned that these are my favorites in recent months.)