How do y'all deal with the bloating
So I'm a male and I have kind of a "femboy" situation going on I'm really into using big toys (3.5" width 13" insertable is what I'm currently using as my main but I'm thinking about going for something little wider soon)
The problem I'm having is the excessive bloating I get from using these bigger toys , I use them about every second day if I have the time , the thing is after the sesh (2-4hrs average sesh time) I get extreme bloating that is still noticeable the next day.
I'm very skinny and love my flat thin waist that I have put in the effort+word to achieve the physique I dreamed of. but the bloating from the toys makes it look weird like not fat but like misshapen,distended ,gassy all that so I get very insecure about it for the whole day after the sesh and hate looking at it, so I wish there would be a way to fix it so I could look good and be confident every day but now I'm basically insecure 50% of the time which negatively impacts how I interact...
I try to do massages and yoga to get rid of the air after a sesh but it doesn't seem to be enough. like last sesh was a long one and when I was done for the evening I weighed myself before and after doing the "anti bloating" techniques I lost 3 lbs of weight in air, which I find to be pretty absurd but even still it doesn't return to completely normal until after about 24hrs. I'm still somehow getting gassy and my midsection feels and looks weird until then.
Diet wise I try to eat overall really healthy and try to eat in a way/ types of food that minimize bloating while aiding gut health I also use psyllium husk which I've found to be really good for my gut performance.
Anyway sorry for the long post it's just been weighing on my mind for some time now just hoping someone knows a trick or something because using smaller toys or using them less often really isn't an option...