r/AnalOnlyLifestyle

I'm ridicously excited and terrified, but my Sir knows best.

I've been missing feeling that utter slutty headspace. I know being denied to touch and just use my ass will hopefully propel that.

Currently struggling with plugs being uncomfortable, more the handle digging into my cheeks after a while, so any advice on that is welcome, but unfortunately, I can not afford to make a squarepeg or the other one.

ANYWAY

The ultimate goal is to have a orgasm only by filling my ass and to stretch myself further so I have a much better gape.

Hi there, does anyone have experience with vibrating butt plugs? Are they worth the extra price and does the vibration feels any good? I’ve seen some mixed reviews and I’m curious. Additionally, if there are some that are worth it can you recommend some. Thanks!

i havent cum in sooo long i dont even remember what it feels like🥺🥺🤤 my cunt is always soo achy and leaky, kept empty alll the time☺️ and my clit is sooo swollen and sensitive

I love anal, I do.. but I'm really not a big fan of how my ass feels after a good session. Moreso if I've been pushing the size a bit and stretching.

It feels like you can't relax your muscles for a good while, and can't trust a single fart for at least the next 24 hours!

Anyone else the same?

Hi, dearest anal soulmates! Mary from Germany here.

I was wondering—guys, what does a perfect "anal wife" need to do to satisfy you completely? And ladies, what do *you* do to keep your men happy?

In my home, there are a few little things I do regularly for my partner because I know he is absolutely crazy about them.

1. During anal sex, I spread my butt cheeks apart—using both hands. He is obsessed with the sight of it, especially when he pulls his cock out and watches my hole dilate.

2. During foreplay—specifically when I’m giving him a blowjob—I play with his asshole. I’ll massage it or slip one or two fingers inside. He loves it. Sometimes I’ll even lick his asshole while he’s pleasuring himself.

3. Sometimes, when he gets home from work, I’ll be waiting for him in the living room in doggy style, with my pants already pulled down. He absolutely loves getting to play with my ass and lick my hole in return. It always makes for fantastic foreplay!

I’d love to hear about your experiences. Maybe I’ll pick up a new trick or two! Perhaps there are some like-minded people here who do things similarly with their own partners.

Warm regards, Maryia

What is the best position to get my wife to ease into anal? We try to have anal every now and then but it’s always doggystyle (her choice) and most of the time I have to stop because even entry hurts her. I feel like maybe it’s because of the position that we always start in. Any tips?

Newbie here👋😊I have a question👋😊 considering on trying Anal for the first time, wondering if any of you could tell me what the best position to start out would be for me F, and him above average size, 6 1/4Lx5 1/4 girth, Ive read some things on google but wondering about first hand experience, thank you✌️😊

A few months ago, I started dating a colleague after she left her husband. I’m a white guy from the Midwest, and she’s an Indian woman from, well, India. Although she emigrated to the U.S. at a very young age, she was raised in a very strict environment, and married young to an Indian man with similar values. Now that she’s dating me, a borderline-alcoholic degenerate, she’s opening up and trying a lot of new things, including having sex outside her marriage (with me.)

However, she still feels uncomfortable having vaginal sex, as she feels that’s for her husband, despite them, evidently, having a mostly sexless marriage. Consequently, we’ve been having anal sex. And wow, have we been having a lot of it. Apparently, a lifetime of being restrained has made her absolutely insatiable. If we have a day off at home, she’ll want to fuck absolutely as many times as I can muster, all while saying the filthiest things. Sometimes, she’ll wake up in the middle of the night and rub her ass against me until I wake up and fuck her. Even in public, like if we happen to cross paths on campus, she’ll often subtly rub her ass against me until I get hard. It’s honestly the hottest thing in the world to me to watch this pretty, petite, academic woman turn into a voracious anal slut like Jekyll and Hyde.

Is this common in Indian culture, or did I just get incredibly lucky? I’ve never dated a woman from that background before, and I’m trying to learn and keep up.

We used to be AO for a couple of years but some weeks ago she said that after going to the bathroom her ass dilated to much and had to wipe a lot to clean herself. I'm gonna miss it but it's for her health and support her 100%. After not doing anal for some time she said her ass went back to normal. Does anybody experienced something like this?

Hey everybody, I'm pretty big on Anal like fingering and whatnot just for mastrubation and I'm really stuck because I'm able to like stretch my hole to the size of a fist but I just can't get deep enough and I was wondering if there were any safe way to go deeper. Please let me know thank y'all.

My wife and used to be anal only until having a baby this last year, since then we've tried but cant get back to comfortable anal sex.

She's never been the type to enjoy toys much unless she's blissfully smoked a bowl or two, she suggested a training set of some sort, she likes tentacles (lol) but not slinks anymore (her guts cant handle it...at least currently).

Anyway...we want to try to dilate her ass and train her back up to taking me.

She needs something with a smooth tapered tip but with enough bulb to stay in, her sphincter is kinda long(about 1- 1.5 in) decent neck and a good flared base (I've lost a glass plug in her once😬)

A plug set or a dilator set or short tentacle (fantasy thing).

Anyone got something they've tried and loved?

I have two fissures from anal sex when my bf and I were inexperienced ​not using lube and plugs properly. But they never went away. They don't hurt but it lowers my confidence because how it looks. I had a doctor look at it a year ago and she said to just leave it and it'll go away but it didn't. I'm getting referred to a derm.

Anyone have a similar experience?

edit: I don't have hemorrhoids. oiments don't work. it's scar tissue it doesn't heal. it's already healed as scar tissue. thx.

Anal is tedious. You need to prepare, clean, apply lube, etc. And in the end you are not even guaranteed an orgasm and even you do have one, you need to clean the toys after.

Are there any tricks to make anal more accessible? I want to make it my default way of masturbation, but it just feels so cumbersome in contrast to just using my clit.

How do you sisters deal with it?

Hee all,

So I’ve got a problem. A good problem, but still. I recently got my largest plug in, it's 56mm diameter at it's widest, 137mm insertable length and holy shit, it felt amazing. Like, achievement unlocked amazing. But now I’m staring online at this other plug I’ve been eyeing, and it's 7.6cm diameter at it's widest and 24cm insertable length... And I need it. Not just to try, but to wear out. To the gym, to work, out with friends, just existing with something that big inside me, stretching me, filling me, while I act like it’s no big deal. Just fiy, I am aware that there is an ethics line here, I actually wrote another post on that which really helped me!

But here’s the thing, how do I get there? Is that even a realistic goal? I mean, this has got to be one of my fav, but also one of the most dangerous reddit communities out there: /r/AnalDildoGirls/ and they are quite advanced. Knowing from experience, that takes time, commitment, and stamina to achieve most levels seen there 🙈. But I do want to get there.. But is that even realistic?

I love the idea of working toward it, of training my body to take more, to wear bigger for longer. But I don’t want to push too hard, too fast, and fuck myself up (literally 😂). So, experienced peers how do you set goals for this? Do you just go up a size every few weeks? Do you wear your current plug for longer and longer before moving up? Or is there some other secret I’m missing?

And yeah, I love the idea of wearing bigger plugs in public. The fullness, the naughtiness, the way it makes me feel on edge the whole time… it’s intoxicating. But I’m also shy as hell in real life. So I’m curious, how do you balance the thrill with the practicality? Do you have rules for yourself, like “only wear this size in these outfits” or “only for this long”? Or do you just go for it and lean into the risk?

(Also, the base of my current plug does spread me a little, so depending on what I wear, it might be visible. And yeah, part of me loves that idea, only when I am turned on which happens a lot while wearing a plug, especially after multiple edges and days without cummnig.)

This is my first time posting about goals, so go easy on me. 😇

Xx Luna

I'm kind of in a weird predicament, wife that loves anal, but at the same time does not like the word anal.

Wife works in Pharmaceutical, so she associates the word with that. I didn't know and have been saying it, but she just told me this.

Any thoughts?

i've been on this sub for a while and i've been really curious to know more or try and explore it. i'm really interested in the submission, denial, humiliation and control aspects, i'd be very into a strong CNC aspect in this dynamic too! As a FTM there's alos multiple things that could make it really interesting, (the "forced masculinization" kink for example) But I’m especially curious about how AO people experience this on a daily, what kind of dynamics actually work well? for what reasons are you AO? (mostly asking the kink side, not the AO as birth control side!)

Hey guys, Mary from Germany here. How do you usually finish during anal sex? My partner loves it most when I kneel in front of him in doggy style and spread my ass cheeks wide apart. He then slides in and out a few times—until he usually cums right inside my gaping hole! It’s an incredible feeling for both of us. We’re total anal gape freaks, though! Is there anyone here who does it exactly the same way? Warm regards, M.

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I’ve worn plugs in public and none of them were very comfortable to walk around with them inside. They either felt like they were gonna fall out. Or my ass was inhaling them too much because the bases were too small. Any round plug is just uncomfortable on my ass. Just looking to get more into wearing plugs in public and for longer times

Hee all,

I’m kinda new to posting here but I’ve been into anal for a while. I’ve been training with plugs, pushing myself to take bigger sizes and wear them longer, and honestly? It’s working. The longer I wear them, the more my body accepts bigger sizes, and the more I crave that full feeling.

But here’s the thing, I’m starting to get obsessed with the idea of wearing them out and about. Like, everywhere, like office work, zoom calls, the gym. Even around friends or family. The thought of being filled up, sitting there all innocent while I’m avtually on edge the whole time… But I’m also so nervous. I’m shy as hell in real life, even if I’m not new to kink.

So I gotta ask, what’s sort of the etiquette here? Do you just… do it? Do you have rules for yourself? Like, “okay, this outfit is fine but that one is pushing it”? Or do you just lean into the risk and hope no one notices? (Or do you want them to notice? I don’t even know.)

Also, the base of my plug kinda… spreads me a little. So depending on what I wear, it might be visible. Like, if I’m in tight leggings or a short skirt, someone could see. And part of me is like yes, that’s the point, but another part is like oh god, what if my coworker sees.

I would like to add that I’m not really into pushing it in a way where it’s super obviously noticeable, but yeah, it’s kind of a rush where you can see it if you look hard enough..

Curious to hear your thoughts!! This is my first time posting so go easy on me 😇.

Xx
Luna

Does anyone here have a problem with anal mucus?

Personally, sometimes after going three times a day, I start to feel discomfort and gas, and when I go to the bathroom, it's just anal mucus.

While I love using this mucus as a bonus when I'm playing with my butt, outside of that, it's a bit uncomfortable having to go so often just because of it.

Is anyone else having the same experience/problem? How did you deal with it?

I should also mention that after each bowel movement, I like to have a little fun once everything is clean. I don't know if that has anything to do with it.