Problem of trying other poses
Hi, how are you? I actually speak Spanish, so I’m using a translator.
Well, I’m a trans guy, and about a year ago, my boyfriend (a cisgender guy) and I started trying anal sex. We really loved it—so much so that we’ve thought about going "anal only."
But there’s a problem: we can only do it doggy-style. Whenever we try any other position, he starts to lose his erection, so we have to stop and switch to doing something else. I talked to him about it last night; he said he isn't really sure why it happens.
He has this idea in his head that anal sex in other positions is for very large penises, which makes him nervous, or else he simply thinks he can't do it in other positions.
I remember that a long time ago—before he started getting nervous about this—we actually managed to do it in the cowboy position once, but that was ages ago. I’d love some advice or ideas on what we could do. We both really love anal sex, and I’d like to try out more things. Sorry for the bad English :')