u/sparkiemila

Update from the girl who’s been fully anal-only with her boyfriend for almost a year.
Everything was still perfect until about two weeks ago.
He brought it up casually at first. Said he missed the feeling of regular sex and asked if we could “mix it up” sometimes. I thought he was joking. He wasn’t.
A few days later he said it more seriously. He still loves the anal, but he doesn’t want it to be the only option forever. He asked if we could try vaginal again, just once in a while.
I told him no.
Not once.

Not “for a special occasion.”

No.
He looked surprised. I think he expected me to compromise. I explained that this isn’t a phase for me anymore. I like the rule. I like how intentional sex feels because of it. I like knowing that part of me is only his in one specific way.
He went quiet for a while. We still had sex that night — anal, like always — and he finished inside me the same way he has for months. But the conversation is still sitting between us.
I’m not changing the rule.

I’m just not sure yet if he’s going to stay okay with that.
Anyone else have their partner start wanting vaginal again after a long stretch of anal-only?

I’m 23. My boyfriend and I decided to go fully anal-only about eleven months ago. At first it was just an experiment after I admitted I came harder from anal than anything else. We said we’d try it for a month. We never went back.

Now it’s just… how we have sex. No vaginal at all. When we’re horny, he works me open slowly with his fingers and lube until I’m soft and ready, then he slides into my ass. That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Sometimes it’s slow and deep while he rubs my clit. Sometimes it’s harder and I end up face-down, moaning into the pillow while he holds my hips and fills me.

I was surprised by how quickly my body adjusted. The first few weeks were careful and a little intense. Now I can take him with almost no warmup if we’re both really worked up, and I get wet just from the feeling of being stretched that way. There’s something about knowing that this is the only place he goes inside me that makes it feel more intimate, not less.

We still do everything else — oral, hands, toys — but penetration is only anal. I’ve never felt more owned or more turned on by a rule in my life.

Some of our friends think it’s extreme. I think it’s the best decision we’ve made as a couple.

Anyone else fully committed to this lifestyle? Still obsessed with it every single time.