u/Blastopeia

Hello everyone!

This will be a long post, just so you can better understand who I'm looking for. This is not my first post and I've both met very good and some less good people here. But I’m not giving up and I hope to meet many new interesting people here!

First of all, I know I'm looking for a quite specific kind of person but maybe she's there? Please don't be afraid or feel offended by what I'm going to write below. I'm trying to explain what I'm looking for but it doesn't mean you have to match EVERYTHING. Maybe you are totally different from the description: reach me out anyway!

I've tried dating apps for years, I would say it's not really for me. Judging people by their looks isn't exactly my cup of tea. I’m exhausted by shallow conversations, meeting people everyday who do not appear interested in bonding with new people (pun intended).

To be honest, I’m not even here to meet new people and talk about anything for days or weeks. I want to find THE person I’ll spend my life with. Maybe I’m daydreaming, huh?

Serious people only, I don't want to waste time for people who will disappear after a few messages. If your message sounds unserious, I probably won't bother replying. However, if you're genuinely interested, go for it and shoot me a message!

If you're not in France and we start online, it would be ideal for you to plan to relocate here at some point in the near future - though it's not mandatory at all, I think that when you want to be with someone, there are always solutions in that matter.

Well, after such a long introduction, let's go for it!

Who am I?

I'm 27, from southwest France, but I'm now part-living in Paris. I can basically travel anywhere in France if needed. 178cm (5'10), light brown hair, light skin, blue-grey eyes, conventionally attractive, average build with some muscles. I dress differently depending on days: casual most of the time but I'm soon switching to the old money style as much as possible to match my vibe.

I deeply value intellect, humor and culture. I thrive to learn always more on a lot of subjects and am very curious. I love literature, cinema, sciences (astronomy, chemistry, computer science), cats and pop-culture including the video games history. You could say I am a nerd, yes. I am mainly an introvert but I appear extrovert to most people, and it allows me to get along with anybody. It is simple for me to talk about basically anything.

I am confident and mostly quiet, calm, faithful, with strong values, while leading naturally and without having to raise my voice.

My family comes from the Iberian Peninsula, so be ready for a strong character, some temper and intensity in the relationship (in a good way of course). However, this is something that you can only really get if you're close to me. Other than that, I like to take care of my partner, show a lot of affection through words, touch and quality time.

You will get photos once we've talked a bit of course. Feel free however to send yours, if you're feeling comfortable (SFW this time please!). I'm also open to relocation for the right person, though I would really prefer to stay in France and ideally in southwest.

Among things I like: the sound of rain, petrichor, walking in the forest, cold and dark mornings, a nice sunset on the sea (especially near where I live). A music so beautiful it makes me imagine a whole story behind it. A delightful meal with my family and/or friends. Eating good products in general. Dark humor and sarcasm are the best, I hope you're enjoying both.

I plan to have my own house in the future, though I haven't decided where I would like it to be located yet. Maybe in the countryside so we can build whatever we want? My dream is to have that big library to store all of our books among many other things. Also, maybe some kind of red room?

Who I am looking for

I'm actively looking for a muse, that person who will inspire me each day through her affection, devotion, love, trust and submissiveness. I need that person to be deeply feminine and able to fully embrace it through me thanks to my physical and mental strength. I'll make the decisions for you so you only have to turn your brain off and go with the flow. I'll carry you through the good and bad times (because they always happen at some point), just make me want to nurture you, like a good girl.

Physically, I do not have much criteria. I'm naturally drawn to caucasian/latin/asian women (bonus if you're mediterranean). Please no BBW, but I'm open to skinny or curvy women. Ideally, you like to dress casually or a bit classy but no sport outfits unless you're home. Being feminine is always appreciated - though it doesn’t mean that you have to wear makeup (by the way, I tend to prefer natural or no makeup, women are beautiful as they are). I'm more into older women but feel free to reach out even if you're younger!

Mentally, you can either wait for me to lead you on our daily life or take the decisions equally, I'm fine with both. But you are a submissive at heart when it comes to private matters (cf. Kinks section). You crave control, being owned and showing it to people through affection or an expressive look. Expect to get married and probably have children (1, 2 or more?). Having children is maybe the most submissive act ever while still being one of the most beautiful things in existence. Getting them will depend on the person I'll marry, it's not mandatory. Also, please don’t be religious. I’m however fine with it as long as religion doesn’t rule your life.

I need you to belong to me fully, quietly and visibly. Give me your all and I'll do equally.

Kinks

Thank you for still being there! Please include a cookie emoji to show me you've read everything so far. Some people skipped the kinks part and are puzzled when I tell them I'm a Dom. So, please show me that you at least read a bit thoroughly!

Such a perfect relationship should include at least a bit of kink to enjoy life to the fullest. And if you're here, you're probably very into it.

A few of my biggest kinks: bondage, gags, blindfolds, breeding, free use, orgasm control and discipline. If you like lingerie and being tied up in various ways, you obviously get bonus points. As for the rest, just ask me, my kink list is way too long to fit here.

I can be soft or less soft, depending on your needs, I’m fine with both.

I'm not dominating unless I get that spark between us. It has to be earned though, just like I have to earn your submission. If you like to have words softly spoken to your ear that bring you to your knees, we're made for each other.

We would look like the perfect couple that would make other people envious, because we're looking so well-put-together. And we would probably be. But there would be another layer that could be noticed. Subtle marks left on you by restraints or light bruises from an earlier punishment. Of course nothing that would be noticeable. Just subtle hints that would let people wondering if those are really what they think they are.

You would be the perfect wife in the streets, my little slut in the sheets.

Thanks for reading! If you decide to send a PM, please introduce yourself a bit and do not just send a one-liner. Also tell me what you liked in my post or what you disagree with.

Let's discuss and get to know each other, I don't bite (unless you want me to)!

Hello brats and tamers!

For context: I am a pleasure Dom and I met a few weeks ago a partner who happens to be a brat (surprising, isn't it?). Now, I've had a past partner who also was a brat but who wanted to be dealt with physically, meaning that she wanted to be spanked, choked a bit etc...

However, my future partner is someone who still loves to brat but do not enjoy pain at all. So spanking, choking or anything that could be related will be out of the equation.
Of course, I still have ways to deal with her: for example, she absolutely loves bondage/shibari (and so do I). So we plan to take advantage of this, combined with orgasm control (edging, forced orgasms and maybe denial if she do not behave).

As part of her kinks, she's also big into being praised, beg, be disciplined, dirty talking and toys/remote control devices.

So my question is: Do you have any tips to help me make her satisfied and "broken"? I specifically want to know if you've got any magic trick to surprise her hahaha

In case anyone asks, I've read previous posts about pleasure doms but didn't find quite what I'm looking for. The title might not make sense with the "pleasure brat" part but I don't know how to call that specificity. Maybe it will be useful for other people in the future!

If you've got any question, feel free to ask! And thanks in advance to everyone who will answer.