Very bi 41f and straight 44m who love group play. We have very limited time and are looking for semi regular fwb. If both the Mr and Mrs are up to chatting before setting a meetup, hit us up
We are needing some input. Long time hotpast and compersion kink for me (44m) as the husband of a very sexy, very bi, swinger/vixen wife (41f). As I have learned more about her past, it has become apparent that the ‘good girl’ I fell in love with is far from innocent. Over the past few years she has embraced her status as a squirting size queen who loves eating pussy (I always knew it was there 🥵).
And that brings us to the current situation. We met when she was 23, fresh off divorce from her cheating first husband. She has maintained that while she loved to suck cocks and let a guy fuck her in the ass, she saved her virginity for her wedding night.
Until last night.
We were talking and she mentioned that there were a couple times she almost gave it up before marrying who would be her ‘first’. As we started to get into heavy foreplay, I was teasing her clit with the head of my cock and she whispers, ‘this is exactly how it almost happened’.
She proceeded to tell me that he teased her clit with his cock and inserted it an inch or two. I paused and said that sounds like more than just the tip, which she agreed. I continued to move my cock around her clit and slowly dipped it slightly in and out of her as she began to moan, saying that is exactly what he did. Then she said she told him to fuck her, but he didn’t have a condom, so they stopped.
Thinking to myself, wow she did get close, I asked how many times he went in and out thinking two or three. ‘Oh it was at least ten minutes, probably closer to twenty. And he made me cum twice’. Full stop. So this guy was sliding his dick in and out of her for twenty minutes, making her cum, but she said she never considered it sex (until now maybe 😂), because he never went balls deep.
I looked her in the eyes as I slid balls deep into her and told her it sounds to me like you lost your virginity well before your wedding night, and your first husband was not your first fuck. She immediately began cumming all over both of us as I watched her face, her entire view of her sexual history flipping on its head.
Story ends with her getting on birth control the following week so she could fuck him properly, but breaking up with him cause he ‘lied’ and told everyone they had sex. I pointed out to her that given what I just heard, he may have genuinely felt that way and wasn’t lying about her, which she had assumed at the time.
So, we are both genuinely on the fence here. Does that count as losing her virginity, yes or no, tell us your reasons for why or why not?
(Before anyone says she definitely fucked him but doesn’t want to admit it, I assure you she is being totally honest. She wishes she would have been a bigger slut and fucked as many people as she wanted to, hence our swinger present. Also she is open to the conclusion that it was a legitimate virginity loss because she genuinely never considered it)
TLDR; my wife may have lost her virginity well before her wedding night with her first husband, who she has said was her first since we met.