For reference I am an American XL, my waist measurement is 40 in. Currently trying to find a full latex gimp suit, can't seem to find any that accomodate my measurements or larger. Any recs?
I (21 F) am basically used to controlling and running everything in my life. When I first got with my partner things were amazing because he would basically never question what he was told, and I would say, without labeling, we basically lived a dom/sub life. He did what I said to do, minded his manners, gave up control of most things, made decisions when asked but otherwise I was in control of most things. Recently in the past year or so, as he finishes his degree the relationship seems to have switched up a small bit (not in any bad way or anything). He does what he wants and thats fine, but I am missing a large amount of the control, and security in that that I once had. He is worried that dom/sub relationships lead to a lack of personhood or self identity if the dom doesn't let him make those decisions for himself. How to I put into good wording a proposal for the type of relationship we both were very comfortable in before, just with a label?
Edit: I should also mention that he comes from a very very sheltered life while I am much more open and willing