My wife says she’s not interested in being shared… but when I fuck her doggystyle she grabs my fingers, sucks them while staring into my eyes and simulates blowing another guy. Is she secretly into the fantasy or is it just for me?
My biggest fantasy has always been sharing my wife with another guy, but as a game of complicity between us — the third person would basically be a “tool” to make things hotter together. I’ve told her years ago and she understands, but she’s always said she’s not interested in doing it for real.
During sex though, she often does something that confuses me. When I take her from behind in doggystyle, she grabs two of my fingers, puts them in her mouth and sucks them while looking me straight in the eyes, clearly pretending she’s blowing another man. She does it spontaneously and we also sometimes play with a dildo.
I’m not sure if she’s just playing along to please me or if she actually enjoys the fantasy deep down. Has anyone experienced something similar? Do you think these kinds of spontaneous acts mean she’s secretly curious, or is it possible she’s only doing it for me? Any advice on how to talk about it would be helpful.