New to Having An Arrangement
Hi everyone, I want to know your thoughts on this -
So I have recently had an arrangement with someone from seeking, it pays well. I haven’t had sex with him (yet?), and recently he has asked if I would be willing to take it there. I do not see myself ever settling down with this man, it genuinely is a way for me to make some money. Now the sticky thing is, I have met a guy (separately from SA) who I am beginning to like, he isn’t my boyfriend yet though, so I haven’t been feeling too bad about my arrangement with the guy from seeking. I am now torn between taking the step forward in the sense of sex with my arrangement because I honestly don’t know how I would feel if I slept with him when I know that I’m developing feelings for this other guy.
In short my question is, has anyone here slept with anyone from SA whilst seeing someone else and how do you manage it? I feel like the situation with the guy from SA is strictly transactional for me, and I need these transactions (I’m broke af at the minute and it’s helping me)! However I have been thinking of cutting ties with SA guy but it’s just paying me too well!! I do think if I don’t move forward with the sex as well he might just stop seeing me all together, he isn’t pressing me to sex have but he’s made it clear he would like to go there….
I hope this makes sense it’s my first time posting on reddit lol.