Married, 39, finally at the point where I know what I want and what I don't. The "what I don't" list is what's driving this. I'm done with being polite roommates with a shared calendar.
So I’m looking to supplement. Firstly looking for a woman who's also a mom because we get each other's lives in a way that's hard to explain to people without kids. You don't have to explain why you can't text back for six hours. I get it. Also someone in the same situation craving and looking to be seen in the same way I am.
Friendship and emotional connection matter. I'm not pretending otherwise. But I've learned those things alone don't sustain a relationship for me. I need the physical side to actually work. That magnetic, can’t-keep-our-hands-off-each-other energy. Hopefully that’s what you want too.
I'm in decent shape, take care of myself, equal parts dad-mode and someone who still very much wants to feel wanted. I am Latino, I don’t care about race, but just in case that matters to you. Funny when I'm comfortable, attentive, and I actually like figuring out what makes someone tick, in conversation and otherwise. Hobby-wise I'm a gamer, golfer, traveler, and music lover.
Hoping to find someone who is confident about what they want, open about what they like, and self-aware enough to know whether sparks are there or not. I'd rather find out fast than slow.
Happy to exchange pics early. Attraction is part of the equation after all.
If this resonates, send me a message. Hope to hear from you.