32 [M4F] #Tennessee looking for a LTR with a sub
Good afternoon, people of Reddit! The TL,DR: I am trying to see if I might be able to find myself an irl sub who would be willing to tolerate my nerdy self and form a long term relationship with me.
I am a 32 year old man, 5’10, with brown hair and green eyes. I would like to find myself a nice, kinky partner who leans submissive to compliment my dominant lean. And when I ask for a kinky partner, what I mean is someone who I can hang out with, chat about our days and interests and, at a minimum, be friends with, while also being someone who wants to engage in some freaky stuff behind closed doors. Basically, I am searching for a sub that is willing to also willing to be somewhere on the range of FWB to girlfriend, with potential to move further with the relationship. I would prefer for this to be an in-person relationship as well, so long as we are in driving distance of each other.
My interests are ones I would readily describe as nerdy, as I play a lot of games, read a lot, pretend to be a writer, and occasionally I’ll binge an interesting anime. And when I say I play games, what I mean is I have an entire room of my house dedicated to holding my DnD/MTG paraphernalia, and a gaming computer in my room.
On the adult side of things, my kinks include bondage, cnc, impact play, edging, leather/latex, gags, and more we can discuss later. My limits are blood, scat, vomit, anything illegal, and permanent harm.
I’m not particularly concerned with appearances, so long as you take care of yourself. Age-wise I would prefer someone relatively close in age to me (maybe like 23-39), but won’t discount anyone just on basis of age. And if you do decide to reach out, please be communicative, especially over text where tone can be hard. If a relationship is going to involve BDSM, then the members need to be able to talk to each other and make sure they can trust their partner. I hate it when I learn that someone is upset with me, but never said anything, because how can I fix the problem if I wasn’t told of it?