pleasure/orgasm F4F
me and my partner (both female) have been together for 7 months. we ve had some issues with sex at the beginning, both being super conscious bout our bodies and so on, we ve overcome that phase. the problem is that i cant cum, i dont wanna necessarily cum but it gets to a point where i get really frustrated and the same thing happens to her. the problem is that im really turned on, i get wet and when she starts fucking me after a really short time, like not even 10 mintues, im not wet anymore. the only time i can stay wet is when i fuck her, we tried once to fuck each other at the same time and it worked for me but i still couldnt cum and it wasnt comfortable enough for both of us. we ve tried a lot of things. she ate me out, did the combo, fingered me, used the strap on, used a vibrator, tried different positions, nothing works. we also both want to feel things at the same time. what can we do?
this is not my first relationship. ive had another girlfriend roughly two years or so ago that lasted 1.2 years. the communication wasnt it, we were both really young (18 &19, now im 21 and my girlfriend is 20), anyway i didnt feel shit back then either but i didnt speak about it, i just faked it and hoped that one day i ll be able to feel smth but i didnt. this time is different, we talk about everything and we re really open with each other and thats why its so frustrating. cuz she s able to cum but she has to use her vibrator cuz otherwise she cant feel shit or she had to be really turned on to feel smth and i cant feel shit from that vibrator, and i can only cum when i do it myself. ive started to question if i ever came.