u/BrilliantParty7604

Hey!

I've been wondering for a time now if I should ask my gf to lock me up. We're pretty kinky, but I've always been the Dom. She knows that I'm slightly curious to the sub side, and she sometimes jokes (very lightly) about being the dom. However, due to some comments (couldnt tell exactly what), I fear that she won't respect me if ask her this.

Ideally, it would be another toy, and a tool to have fun. But most people that I see use it for long periods of time, and while it sounds hot (and id like to try it) I don't know if something a bit longer term would affect in a negative way(?).

Any comment helps!