u/Broad_Obligation_881

I wanted to ask ladies a question about the orgasm only from penetration. Let's say you never had an orgasm with your husband only from penetration alone. Have you had one with your third?

Does it feel like something new unlocked and you want to experience it more? Or you just couldn't have it, no matter if it's with a third or your hubby?

I'm thinking how this change the perspective in a women about this whole hotwife LS?

I could go into a story how in 11 years I could never make my queen orgasm just from penetration, we use vibrator on her clit. It works, it's better than nothing, but I wonder how it would feel for her if she had her first real orgasm with her third.

For me it seems a beautiful thing to know that she can experience that, but I'm just thinking if that's something that happens.

The first time I brought up the hotwife idea to my wife was 8 years ago. We have not done that, but during this all time I realized why this fantasy is drawing me so much, why it seems so beautiful.

Yes, it would be amazing to watching my wife fuck and all. I would like to see her riding a well hung bull. But that's not the main thing, because I would love the most - seeing her powerful, confident and showing her side that has been hidden for a long time.

There's nothing hotter than imagining her being sexual power house. Where she seems radiant, excited for sex like in the old days. Witnessing that goddess energy would be amazing!

In all these years she could never have orgasm just from penetration. From her stories I figured out she likes something bigger than average. And if this whole experience could make her orgasm it would be just beautiful. It's like witnessing a Queen!

I don't know it might be weird motivation for interest in hotwife stuff, but during the years it envolved and this where I'm at now. Is this a good thing to feel like that?

As a man I fell like hotwife LS is beautiful. I feel weird to admit it but it feels like that.

We've been together for 12 years and during this time I could never make my beautiful wife orgasm without using vibrators. It works, it keeps the fire going, because it's not just my orgasm guaranteed.

During all these years I learned things about my wife, about her past stories. I learned she might be a size queen. She even likes when I call her like that. And I love it!

I brought that fantasy about 6 years ago. At first as usual it was a hard no, but now we are at this point where she tells me that sometimes during sex she imagines a big guy, like from her one night stand, many years ago.

At these moments she just feels so electric. The first time she told me about having imagination like that I could stop thinking about that for month. She looked so hot in my eyes.

And here comes the beauty part. I understand that as a man my orgasm is guaranteed, it's simple friction action, and hers is a different story. Why she shouldn't experience that?

Why she can't reach her peak of pleasure? Am I to insecure to let her have it? I might not have the equipment, but sure I would love her to experience that.

And all that seems beautiful. Knowing your wife is at hear peak of pleasure. She's experiencing it and on top of that it makes her feel more confident.

If I can't give her that, then why she should be denied from that? It seems selfish.

It’s been 8 years since I first brought up this fantasy to my wife. Nothing has happened yet, but the whole process is honestly fascinating.

I love when we finish having sex and she sometimes admits she was imagining a guy who’s really big. One time she even told me she pictured me watching her, and I could see how turned on she got. She came so easily those times.

Back then I was completely obsessed with wanting to watch her. I thought I understood compersion, but I really didn’t. Now after all these years of talking and thinking about it, my feelings have changed. It feels different. Deeper.

The hotwife dynamic is just so beautiful to me. I love imagining my wife finally experiencing something she never had in our 14 years together, like her first real deep orgasm. That would be incredible to watch, but what turns me on even more is the idea of seeing her wild side come out. Her hidden, powerful, sexual goddess side.

There’s something so hot about her looking confident, glowing, and completely in control of her pleasure. It’s her show. I’m happy just being there to witness it. Even if I never get to see it in person, just knowing she got to let that side of herself shine would make me really happy.

I could keep talking about how beautiful it all looks in my head, but I’m sure a lot of you already get it.

Big respect to all the hotwives out there. What you’re doing is like art. The way you embrace this side of yourself while still being a wife… it’s inspiring!

I know a lot of people in this lifestyle say the journey is worth it even if it takes time. So if any hotwives or experienced husbands are reading this, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Does it get easier? Does the guilt fade and the excitement take over completely? Appreciate any wisdom you can share.