u/BrutalLeeMean

I met her on campus .. i was in the school cafeteria waiting for my next class to start. As i was sitting there at my table she walked in wearing a tank top and it was obvious she was braless because her cleavage spilling out was unbelievable.

She sat down a few tables down from mine. I went in my backpack and pulled out a piece of paper and a pen. I pretended to write something and my pen running out of ink. Then I got up to cold approach her. She sat at a table with her back to me.

NGL I was terrified af. My hands were shakey, my palms were sweaty and my stomach was upside down. I said “excuse me, would u happen to have a pen i can borrow?” She smiled and said she did reaching in her purse to grab a pen. When i took it i went back to my table. I scribbled on that piece of paper i had out and went back to her to return it. I said “well ty, i’m sorry what’s ur name?” and she told me her name was debbie. So i said “well ty debbie & btw my name is …thanks for the pen”
It was one hell of a challenge to maintain eye contact and to ignore her deep cleavage but i got through it.

Then we started a conversation and everything snowballed from there. Fast forward a few weeks
we went into dating, hanging out and phone conversations. I’m talking about no sex, no flirting, no sexual comments, no sexual tension, no nothing. Just getting to know each other & being a gentleman. Well that turned into her introducing me to her parents, her siblings and her best friends. Telling them the story of how we met.

Eventually this lead to being alone with her in my room one night. I was finally making out with her and she was feeling comfortable enough to let me take her to bed. She had me drowning in boob. We even did doggy it in front of a mirror because i wanted to see her big boobs in motion & watch them swing n sway.

After that i dropped her back at her house. We ended the night with a kiss and then she said those three words .. “I love you” .. i smiled & kissed her on the cheek then told her have a good night.

What should i do? ghost her? because i worry about her saying it again and im not ready to say all that back. Or should i just talk about it to her?

If you happen to meet a woman that’s top heavy who’s interested in you, and she wears an outfit on a date that shows off her long cleavage line, there are respectful ways to express your attraction and gauge whether she’s comfortable with more physical intimacy.

The key is to communicate openly, flirt appropriately, and always respect her boundaries and consent! So remember to always remain a gentleman about it!

This only applies if things are already progressing and the attraction is clearly mutual, you can ask for consent more indirectly:

“Would you be comfortable with letting me see & touching your breasts”

“You have an incredible body, i’d love to take off your top if you don’t mind”

“Are u ok with this?” (gently placing your hand on her boob over her clothes as you continue making out)

Those tend to feel more natural because they’re connected to the intimate moment rather than treating her boobs as the subject of a request.

In general, confidence, flirting, and mutual attraction usually work better than trying to find a smoother way to ask to see her more intimately.

Yes. I’m speaking from real experience! When i was in college all i dated were busty women and the things they wore on dates were mind blowing 🤯

I’m a bi-racial male … I’ve been complimented as “handsome” “sexy” “cute” & “fine” .. my dating life was active af and my sex life was epic

The hard truth is, looks do matter & I’ve got too much testimony that backs that statement.

I’ve witnessed women cheating on their bf with me simply because i looked way better than him. Or women telling me they’re dating someone only for the benefits of getting free food, free drinks, free concert tickets and free clothes but don’t plan on sleeping with any of these guys because they’re not the womans type or isn’t attractive. Meanwhile they’re cuddled with me naked in my arms after a session.

How many of you have taken out a woman on a date and paid for dinner or whatever then at the end of the night all you got was a hug? It’s because she just used you!!

Do you have any idea how many times i got a call from a woman telling me about a date & she laughs because she got what she wanted with nothing in return? Then invited me over to do the deed?

A lot of guys aren’t getting any action or struggle with escalation because the woman doesn’t like them like that. If she was 100% attracted to you then you won’t have to say or do much!

In all my years I’ve never had to worry about escalation and initiating sex. Building sexual tension and flirting for it. I’ve never had to experience that because all my encounters have been from women who made all the first moves. I never went out of my way, entertained a woman or worked for sex, ever! From what i’ve experienced they’ve all done that for me.

Here’s a story. I was messing with a woman with huge tits and she kept claiming me as her bf but in reality she was just someone who had a crush on me. We lived in the same neighborhood and i saw her get dropped off by some guy in a sports car.
When he rolled off she came walking to my house and she was laughing saying the guy begged to see her boobs.

She told me she said to him “we have to get to know each other first” so he brought that line and dropped her off at her place.

I told her “thats funny because when i first met you i was playing with your boobs within a couple hours” She said “its because you’re sexy af to me and still are” i said “well i appreciate that babe” i said “are you gonna let the guy in the sports car play with your boobs?” she said “fuck no in fact im about to block his ugly ass” lol

Anyway thats my story and my take about escalation, building sexual tension and getting laid!