30 [M4F] #california submissive in bay area looking for Domme for genuine connection (platonic friendship, play partner or ideally dating/relationship)
Hi! Thanks for reading my post. So like the title says I am quite open in terms of what I am looking for but would really like to make a genuine strong connection first. I really enjoy pleasing my partner and also letting go of the control to someone I trust. I’m not looking for a kink dispenser.
I am looking for something meaningful where I get to know my partner and develop trust (not interested in ONS - consider myself a demisexual).
What I am looking for:
- ideally local around Bay Area…I am open to chatting with anyone in the US though and potentially meeting in person if we have a strong connection.
- general age range between 25-35 (feel free to message if a bit outside that range)
- No preference on ethnicity
- I am fine with my partner being taller or shorter than me.
- Health orientated
- Strong communication skills via text and in person conversations
-willing to eventually meet in person
What type of person I am:
- 5’ 7” 155 pounds, average build
-Originally from Europe, moved to the US when I was young but I am bilingual.
- Strongly value kindness, honestly, open-mindedness, and someone who is a conversationalist who also has good listening skills
- really like having long in depth conversations (both kinky and non-kinky) both in person and via text
- enjoy being outside and going on adventures (hikes, playing sports, going on walks in parks - currently getting into pickleball and it’s been fun learning the strategy- I also enjoy playing tennis, snowboarding and ultimate frisbee)
- big movie lover and enjoy playing board games. Some of my favorites are avatar, gladiator and wonder. I really love movies that have a great plot and make you think. Board game wise I like chess, monopoly, risk and codenames.
- Value mental Heath and therapy
- Enjoy eating heathy (lots of veggies :D)
- A few kinks I am interested in include tease and denial, roleplay, bondage, dirty talk and impact. I have plenty plenty more interests but let’s chat :) I want to please my partner instead of a kink dispenser. I am very open minded and am very open to negotiating.
That being said some of my hard limits are:
scat, blackmail, heavy degradation/ humiliation, needles, blood, permanent marks/ damage, forced bi, findom, sounding, being ignored/ghosted.
If you read till the end of this post I strongly appreciate it! Please tell me your favorite color in your first message or one fun fact about you so I know your read it. Hope to hear from you!