u/Busy-Car-421

Like the title says... going to oasis for the first time Friday night.

I was in a 7 year hetero relationship and we never explored much around my bicuriosity or interest in threesomes ect. I want to take things slow and not dive off the deep end too much my first visit. I've explored my other kinks a good amount. But I've never been with a woman or had a threesome, and ive always wanted to.

Overall I am open to trying/learning from more experienced couples/groups that night/generally seeing where things lead and being open to nothing happening or something happening.

In a dream world a 40-50s year old couple takes me under their wing for the night and I dont have to be too much out of my comfort zone lol. But ones in and around my age would still work if they're confident/experienced.

I'm also usually attracted to black and brown bodies, but thats not deal breaker/a no to others.

Anywyas....If you see an awkward shy girl on friday please come up and say hi, because I may struggle to lol.

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u/Busy-Car-421 — 25 days ago

more of a post to get out my thoughts, but any advice is welcome.

I'm keeping expectations low, but it will be fun to meet and chat with people. However, I am nervous about seeing someone I know (do ppl wear masks lol).

Is it odd if i bring a small bag of toys (a vibrator or something)? I dont know, I dont want to presume, but I also know its hard for me to finish without using one.

a bit insecure about my body though, im curvier with a belly, but boobs and a nice butt to compensate.

I was in a 7 year hetero relationship and we never explored much around my bicuriosity or interest in threesomes ect. I want to take things slow and not dive off the deep end too much my first visit. I've explored my other kinks a good amount. So overall I am open to trying/learning from more experienced couples/groups that night/generally seeing where things lead and being open to nothing happening or something happening.

In a dream world a 40-50s year old couple takes me under their wing for the night and I dont have to be too much out of my comfort zone lol

If you see an awkward shy girl on friday please come up and say hi, because I may struggle to lol.

edit to add some of my stats: 32f, bi, curvy/thick. south asian/brown

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u/Busy-Car-421 — 25 days ago