Why do girls go on free first dates?
I’ve been doing various forms of sex work for at just over ten years. It’s something I dont hate doing and I have a lot of financial freedom.
I’m mainly an “escort” currently. But I’ve had clients I see regularly for years, travel with, go on dates with, or have arrangements with.
The ones that work out the best are generally the ones who are comfortable being very honest with themselves that what they are participating in is transactional. And honestly? These are the men I’ve had the best actual bonds with in turn because there’s no bullshitting each other.
I occasionally log into seeking and notice a lot of guys on there are expecting to meet up for meet and greets or first dates with no financial exchange. I was going to go on one today and decided to cancel because I asked if we were going to eat and he said no and I just started thinking… this whole ordeal is going to take probably at least 4-5 hours out if my day to do and I’d have to pay for valet and everything and the guy can’t even be courteous enough to feed me? I don’t think this is entitlement. If the client, “sugar daddy” or whatever they want to call themselves wants to shop around then we should be shopping too. If he’s not showing that he can provide pretty much upfront then he’s probably a dud. And you’re wasting a lot of time.
These men like to say our time is not valuable but realistically, most successful SWers have much more valuable time than most punters.
Do you do free first dates? I’m sure sometimes it works out in an awesome way for both parties but for me personally I can just see it leading to frustration and that’s not sustainable for me personally.