Being a man and a female are not incompatible.
I happen to think female men are quite cute and hot. Being female isnt about being on t or having a deep voice or even a hairy body. It's because you have a vagina. Plenty of men have cute little vaginas and clits, but let's not kid ourselves. Those men are females not males.
It's not hard to understand why many trans men seem to want to be bred either. The male body produces sperm. The female body knows this and pumping it full of male hormones gives your body a need that can only be met by a proper cock and balls. Male hormones wire your body to expect to have sperm. The female body lacking such an ability to produce said sperm knows to seek it out from men who have an abundance of it.
You being a needy little slut for other men definitely doesn't make you a woman, but it does make you a good female and an excellent bro.
Obviously this doesn't universally apply to every guy, but there does seem to be a correlation with becoming a man, and developing a strong desire to produce sperm in the only way the female body knows how.